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What if healthy aging wasn’t only about the genes we inherit, but also about how those genes are expressed? This is where resveratrol has captured the attention of longevity researchers.
Resveratrol is a naturally occurring polyphenol found in the skin of red and purple grapes, berries, peanuts, and other plants. Plants produce it as part of their natural defense system. In our bodies, resveratrol acts as a biologically active compound that may influence cellular signaling, inflammation, oxidative stress, and metabolism.
One of the most fascinating areas of resveratrol research involves epigenetics which is the study of how lifestyle and environmental factors can influence which genes are turned “on” or “off” without changing the DNA sequence itself.
Resveratrol may influence enzymes called sirtuins, particularly SIRT1, that are involved in cellular stress responses, metabolism, DNA repair, and healthy aging. Research suggests that resveratrol can also influence epigenetic processes involving DNA and proteins called histones, helping regulate gene expression.
Think of your DNA as the instruction manual and epigenetics as the system deciding which instructions your cells should read. Resveratrol may help support some of these cellular “switches.”
Why is this important as we age? Aging is associated with increased oxidative stress, inflammation, changes in gene regulation, and declining cellular efficiency. Laboratory and animal research suggests resveratrol may support pathways associated with these processes and healthy longevity. However human studies remain mixed, and more research is needed.
Resveratrol is commonly available as a capsule or tablet. Many supplements specifically identify trans-resveratrol , the form commonly used in research. Because products and doses vary considerably, follow the product label.
Resveratrol may interact with certain medications, please consult your doctor before starting a new supplement.
Resveratrol is best viewed as one piece of a larger healthy aging strategy. A nutrient rich diet, regular exercise, restorative sleep, stress management, healthy body weight, and meaningful social connections all contribute to longevity.
The goal isn’t simply to live longer, it’s to support more healthy, energetic years.











"Getting our students involved in civic action and volunteering is really important to us"
"I always saw my role as a leader with students as a mentor ... to help guide them"


When Benjamin Franklin founded our nation’s first library, The Library Company of Philadelphia in 1731, few could have imagined the thriving, bustling library systems in place today. As our nation celebrates its 250th anniversary this year, we recognize all that libraries have to offer and the variety of ways the red, white, and blue is celebrated throughout. If you’re looking to continue the Americana theme through books this summer, the Wyckoff Library has a variety for all ages and interests.
Emerging readers will be introduced to American people, places, and symbols in Land of the Free: America’s ABC by Devin Scillian. Told through rhyming verses along with beautiful illustrations by Pam Carroll, the book is vibrant, engaging, and perfect for families looking to enjoy learning about America’s history together.
Young readers will enjoy a fun-filled journey through our country’s regions and history in Happy Birthday, America by Rebecca Baines. With plenty of games, crafts, and recipes throughout, the book encourages interactive learning and exploration.
America: Our Country, Our Home by Courtney Carbone is a patriotic non-fiction book that recognizes all that is amazing about the U.S.A., from its beginnings to the beauty of its land.
Wyckoff’s own Robert Skead has authored an amazing, action-filled American Revolutionary War Adventure series middle graders are sure to enjoy. With three titles currently in the series, readers are introduced to twin brothers, John and Ambrose Clark, as they set out on a dangerous mission to deliver a message to George Washington after their father has been shot by British Redcoats.
Young adult readers will be captivated by Hamilton and Peggy! A Revolutionary Friendship by L.M. Elliott. Perfect for fans of Hamilton, the book weaves a richly detailed tale about the extraordinary Peggy Schuyler and her friendship with Alexander Hamilton.
Women Heroes of the American Revolution: 20 Stories of Espionage, Sabotage, Defiance, and Rescue (Women of Action) by Susan Casey shines a spotlight on twenty remarkable girls and women of the Revolution in this lively collection of biographical profiles perfect for any history buff’s bookshelf.
Adults looking to study up on history will enjoy 1776 by David McCullough. A compelling read that weaves history and story together through excitement and drama, it is considered one of the best history books about the birth of our nation. 1776 is the September book club selection of the Friends of the Wyckoff Library Book Club. Join the group on Tuesday, September 15th at 4pm for a lively book discussion.
The Revolutionary Samuel Adams by Stacy Schiff was voted one of the best books of 2022 by numerous publications. Exploring the story of the most essential Founding Father, it is an entertaining and important look into the one who stood behind the change that sparked the American Revolution.
In The Greatest Sentence Ever Written by Walter Isaacson, the origins are revealed of the most revolutionary sentence in the Declaration of Independence and how the line, “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness” lays the foundation for the American Dream and defines the common ground we share as a nation.
Not only is 2026 the 250th celebration, but it’s also Wyckoff’s Centennial. On High Ground: A History of the Township of Wyckoff as well as Wyckoff by David Brown, Bob Traitz, and the Wyckoff Historical Society are both wonderful books that highlight the vast history of Wyckoff through historical accounts and vintage photographs. Wyckoff is available in the library’s history room while On High Ground is available for both borrowing or purchasing.
As we celebrate the 250th anniversary of our great nation, be sure to stop by the Wyckoff Library and enjoy the above titles and so much more that offer both entertainment and history to readers of all ages and interests.
The 44th annual Wyckoff Fishing Derby took place on June 6 at Zabriskie Pond. The catch-and-release derby was open to children 15 years and younger.
Summer should be the season of energy. Longer days. More sunshine. Vacations. Family gatherings. Time outdoors. By all accounts, we should feel our best.
Yet, frequently, I hear a different story from patients: "I'm exhausted." "My workouts don't feel the same." "I'm sleeping, but wake up tired." "I just don't feel like myself."...does this sound familiar?
This isn't the result of one poor decision or unhealthy week. It's the cumulative effect of small habits that gradually drift off course.
The hidden health cost of summer isn't too many barbecues or missed workouts. It's the quiet accumulation of dehydration, inconsistent sleep, increased stress, poor recovery, and nutritional shortcuts that reduce our energy and resilience.
Fortunately, our body is constantly providing feedback, if we're willing to listen.
As we reach the midpoint of the year, now more than ever is the perfect time for a personal health audit.
Energy is one of the clearest indicators of overall health.
Do you wake up refreshed, or do you rely on caffeine to get moving? Are you productive throughout the day, or do you experience an afternoon crash?
Low energy is rarely caused by a lack of motivation. More often, it's the result of inadequate sleep, dehydration, poor nutrition, unmanaged stress, or insufficient recovery.
Rather than asking, "How can I push through?" ask, "Why is my body asking for more energy?" That simple shift changes everything.
Life encourages us to stay busy. Summer adds travel, events, children's activities, late nights, and packed schedules. Recovery often becomes an afterthought.
But recovery isn't something "earned" after working hard. It's an essential ingredient that allows the body to function well in the first place.
Quality sleep, hydration, mobility, time outdoors, and moments of intentional rest regulate our nervous system and restore our body's ability to perform.
Health isn't built only through activity. It's built through recovery.
Many associate dehydration with athletes exercising in extreme heat. Even mild dehydration can affect energy, concentration, mood, physical performance, and appetite.
During the summer months, we naturally lose more fluids through heat, sweat, travel, and outdoor activities. By the time we feel thirsty, our body is already working overtime.
Hydration isn't simply about drinking water; it's about supporting every cell in our body so we can function efficiently.
Summer is meant to be enjoyed. Vacations, celebrations, and family cookouts help create lasting memories.
The goal isn't perfection. However, if convenience has quietly replaced consistency, your body will notice. Instead of focusing on restriction, focus on returning to basics: lean protein, fruits and vegetables, healthy fats, whole-food carbohydrates, and adequate hydration.
Small improvements practiced consistently always outperform extreme diets that last only a few weeks.
Not all stress is obvious. Positive experiences: travel, celebrations, busy family schedules, and exciting opportunities place demands on the body.
When stress accumulates without adequate recovery, we experience fatigue, irritability, poor sleep, reduced motivation, increased cravings, and difficulty concentrating.
Building moments of recovery into each day profoundly impacts our physical and mental well-being.
The most important question of all!
Health is not simply the absence of disease. It's waking up energized. Thinking clearly. Recovering quickly. Having the strength and resilience to enjoy the people and experiences that matter most.
Those qualities deserve as much attention as any number on the scale or lab test.
As August begins, there is still plenty of summer left to enjoy.
Rather than waiting to recommit to your health, use this season as an opportunity to simply check in with yourself. Pay attention to your energy. Protect your sleep. Stay hydrated. Move your body. Prioritize recovery.
The small choices we make today will shape how we feel not only this summer, but throughout the months ahead.
True wellness isn't about perfection. It's about building a life where health becomes the foundation for everything else.


Jackson Marder has served as a Junior Commissioner for the Wyckoff Environmental Commission since December 2024.
As part of his duties, he was tasked with creating a program that would have a positive environmental impact for the Wyckoff community.
Jackson created a paper recycling program called The Greenest School In Wyckoff that encouraged the four elementary schools and Eisenhower Middle School to compete in an effort to recycle the most paper and reduce their waste. He received donations from local businesses to cover the costs of the program and was responsible for setting up and emptying the containers.
The Wyckoff Education Foundation (WEF) provided funds for the cost of prizes.
Coolidge Elementary School recycled the largest amount of paper. Jackson spoke to students on the environmental impact of recycling and awarded the students and teachers re-usable water bottles imprinted "Coolidge is the Greenest School in Wyckoff" at end-of-the-year school meeting on June 22.
Jackson, an outdoor enthusiast, will begin his senior year at Ramapo High School in September.
The Wyckoff-Midland Park Rotary held a breakfast on June 4 honoring the 2026 High School Senior Scholarship award recipients and their families.
Each year, the Rotary interviews and selects recipients from multiple schools, who live in either Wyckoff or Midland Park, and plan to continue their education in college or trade school. This year recipients are: Rush Family Scholarship:
Thomas Madigan Scholarship
Alfonso Daloisio Sr. Scholarship
Penny Hoeppner and Michelle Burgess both agree that their happy memories of their childhood, Wyckoff's great school system and having their parents, Kathy and Roger Lane, in town were the key factors in wanting to raise their own children in their hometown.
"My sister and her family live practically across the street and having our parents in town and part of their grandchildren's lives is so special," said Penny.
In 1991, Roger and Kathy moved to Wyckoff, from their mutual childhood hometown of New Milford, and enrolled their daughters at Sicomac elementary school.
"We moved here because of the reputation of the school system," they said .
While living in New Milford, Roger became interested in politics.
"My grandfather was a district ward chairman of the Democrat party in New York City and my mother was also interested in politics," explains Roger.
Roger is a graduate of Fairleigh Dickinson University and remembers a 45-minute presentation he made in a class defending Richard Nixon.
"I admired his foreign policy," said Roger.
He joined the New Milford Republican Club and was the youngest person elected as its president.
Roger was elected as a councilman in 1979 and as mayor in 1986.
When the Lanes moved to Wyckoff, Roger thought he would take a break from civic duties.
"I received a phone call from Steve Boswell and he encouraged me to run for a seat on the Ramapo Indian Hills Board of Education," said Roger.
One of the highlights serving on the Board of Education was the honor and tradition of being able to present his daughters their high school diplomas at graduation.
Today, Roger serves on the Township Committee and is the Wyckoff mayor for 2026.
"I haven't confirmed this fact but I may be the only mayor in New Jersey who has served in that position in two different towns," said Roger. "I am so happy to serve as mayor during Wyckoff's Centennial. I am extremely blessed to have so many volunteers helping to make our centennial celebration a success."
In addition to countless hours performing civic duties, Roger and Kathy are involved at Wyckoff Reformed Church where Kathy serves as a Deacon.
"I am on the Wyckoff Reformed Church Nursery School board," said Roger. "Four of my five grandchildren all attended nursery school there."
Kathy serves on the board of trustees at the Wyckoff Free Public Library board and says she has no political ambitions of her own, instead, preferring a supporting role.
"I have stuffed and stamped lots of envelopes and attended many events," laughs Kathy.

Kathy and Roger's partnership goes back longer than their 47-years of marriage.
Roger, an only child, spent lots a time during his childhood at the Belthoff house.
"I was friends with two of Kathy's brothers and remember being at their house playing stick ball and being introduced to their siblings," said Roger.
The parade of siblings totaled 11 children
"The last one I met was Kathy and I recognized her as a girl I had noticed in town," said Roger.
In high school, Roger began dating Kathy. He was a senior and she was a freshman.
"Her mother was surprised that Kathy wanted to date "our Roger," laughs Roger..
The couple dated eight years and were married a month after Kathy graduated college.

Roger's career in the telecommunications industry provided the couple with opportunities to travel throughout the country.
"I had a bad experience flying and did not fly for 20 years and took lots of Amtrak trains," said Roger. "It was a trip to Bermuda for my in-laws anniversary that got me back on a plane."
One memorable trip was to Portland, Oregon where they had tickets to see Eric Clapton perform. They ended-up staying in the same hotel as Clapton and met the rock and roll legend in the lobby and spoke at great length.
Another memorable experience was when Kathy attended Yankees female fantasy camp with her sisters.
"We put on a uniform, played baseball and had so much fun," said Kathy
The Lanes are self-proclaimed wine lovers and have enjoyed a trip to Napa Valley.
Their love of wine inspired them to make and bottle their own wine at Make Wine With Friends.
"Our label is Lane Vineyards and it includes bottled in Wallington, NJ," laughs Roger.
When not spending time with their family or volunteering their time in the community, the Lanes can be found in their backyard.
"I love gardening and Roger takes care of the lawn," said Kathy. "Roger is so meticulous he cuts the lawn with a scissor."

After Michelle graduated Ramapo High School in 2000, she headed to Marist College to study fashion design.
Her roommate invited a friend to campus who brought along some of his friends, including Devin, from the U.S. Merchant Marine Academy also known as Kings Point.
"I remember calling my mom and sister and telling them I met the guy I am going to marry," recalls Michelle. "Oh, and he is from Texas and in the military."
The couple began dating and married in 2008.
After graduation, Devin served for 8 years in the naval reserves and began his 20 year career at Starr Insurance. His job took the couple to Chicago, Katy, TX and then back to the East Coast.
"When he was transferred I knew we wanted to live in the towns on the Route 208 corridor," said Michelle. "If we could find and afford a home in Wyckoff that's where we really wanted to be."
Michelle and Devin moved to the Coolidge neighborhood in time for their daughter Lily to begin kindergarten.
"We met a group of five families and we are all still friends," said Michelle.
In September, Lily will be a junior at Rampo High School and son, Kyle will be an eighth grader at Eisenhower Middle School. The family has a 3-year old English Bulldog named Teddy.
When not juggling the family's schedule, Michelle works as a travel agent specializing in Disney vacations.
The family has enjoyed trips to the Magic Kingdom as well as the annual July 4th celebration with Devin's family in Texas.
At home, there is always a birthday to celebrate and a holiday meal to plan.
"Penny and I now host Thanksgiving but my mom still shows up with the side dishes," said Michelle. "We have 21 first cousins and I literally have an Excel spreadsheet to keep track of each family and the names of their children."

After Penny graduated Ramapo High School in 1999, she attended the University of Connecticut.
She met Matt during her freshman year at a party but over the years lost touch.
"I was 24-years-old and living in Hoboken when I received a random AOL instant message (AIM) from Matt and we reconnected," said Penny.
Matt was studying to be a physicians assistant at the time.
During his second year, his degree required moving around the country doing his medical rotations.
"We spent much of that year apart, but we found ways to be together, whenever we could. During his Colorado rotation, we took a two-week cross-country road trip, and we always joke that if you can happily survive two weeks in a car together, you know you've found the right person," said Penny.
The couple were married in 2014. They bought a home in Smoke Rise and lived there for 6 1/2 year before Wyckoff called them home.
Matt has worked his entire career at Holy Name Medical Center with his first 12-years in the Emergency Department, including during the pandemic.
"I moved out of the house and into a hotel for almost a month to protect Penny and our children," said Matt. "I was working 12-14 hour shifts."
Penny was alone, working remote from home for BASF, while taking care of their children, twins Brynn and Chase and daughter Reagan.
"Once the kids could enter preschool we enrolled them at WRCNS and I was driving back and forth to my family in Wyckoff," said Penny. "Matt jokes that there is a magnet that pulls you back to Wyckoff."
The Hoeppners bought a house in the Coolidge neighborhood. The twins will start 4th grade at Coolidge and Reagan is entering 2nd grade at Sicomac school.
"My mother was a school teacher and helps the children with their academics," said Penny. "Both my mom and dad help take care of our kids. We are so lucky that they are such an important part of their lives."

The Lane family help comes in handy for the all-year sports and activity schedule including Torpedoes soccer, baseball and football.
In order to have a more balanced work/family life, Matt now works for Pfisterer Orthopedics in Teaneck. Penny still works for BASF Corp leading the talent management.
Weekends are all about quality time with the people they love most - gathering with friends and their kids, making memories as their kids grow up to together.
The family enjoys spending time with relatives in Long Beach Island in the summer and skiing in the winter.
"We have also taken many trips to Disney World," said Penny.





One of the most common things I hear from people is, "I know I need life insurance." In many cases, they have already been thinking about it for months or even years before they finally reach out. We have a conversation, review options together, and I provide pricing that fits their needs and budget. More often than not, they fully intend to move forward.
But then life gets busy.
Work deadlines pile up, children's schedules take over, vacations get planned, and the urgency fades. Because life insurance is not an emotional purchase in the same way that buying a home, a new car, or planning a vacation can be, it is often pushed lower on the priority list. You get to enjoy those purchases immediately. Life insurance is different. What it provides is peace of mind — something people often do not fully appreciate until life reminds them how quickly circumstances can change.
Recently, I experienced this firsthand with a client named Linda.
Linda initially reached out to me in January looking for life insurance coverage. After reviewing her options, I was able to provide her with pricing that she felt comfortable with. She told me the rates sounded good, but she wanted time to think about it and discuss it with her adult children since, ultimately, they would be the beneficiaries of the policy.
Over the next few months, I checked in with her a few times. Each conversation was warm, but the answer remained the same: she just needed a little more time to think about it.
Then in April, I decided to follow up one last time. This time, her tone felt different. She politely told me she was no longer interested and that if she changed her mind, she would reach back out to me.
About two hours later, my phone rang again. It was Linda.
This time, she sounded nervous and almost embarrassed. She explained that she really did want the insurance and that having the protection in place would make her feel more secure. Then she quietly said the words that so many people fear: "My health has changed."
At the end of March, Linda had suffered an aneurysm. Her immediate concern was that she no longer qualified for the life insurance coverage we had discussed just a few months earlier.
I reassured her that while her health situation had changed, my job was to advocate for her and explore every available option. Because I work with multiple insurance carriers, I was able to research alternative solutions and find a company willing to offer her the amount of coverage she wanted with only a slight increase in price.
That same day, we were able to get her policy issued and finally put the protection in place that she had wanted all along.
Linda's story had a positive outcome, but it also serves as a powerful reminder of how quickly life can change. In many situations, a sudden health event can dramatically affect pricing, eligibility, or even the ability to obtain coverage at all.
This is why I often tell clients that the best time to explore life insurance is when you feel like you do not urgently need it yet. Securing coverage while you are healthy gives you access to better options, better pricing, and greater peace of mind for the future.
Today's life insurance policies can also offer more than many people realize. Certain policies include living benefits, which may allow policyholders to access funds if they experience qualifying critical, chronic, or terminal illnesses. In other words, life insurance is no longer only about protecting loved ones after a loss. In many cases, it can also provide financial support during some of life's most difficult moments while you are still living.
At its core, life insurance is not really about preparing for death. It is about protecting the people you love from financial hardship, uncertainty, and impossible decisions during already emotional times. It is about creating stability for your family and making sure they have options when they need them most.
None of us can predict the future, and no one likes to imagine worst-case scenarios. However, one thing I have learned through years of working with families is that life and health can change far more quickly than most people expect.
The families who are most grateful they planned ahead are rarely the ones who waited until something happened. They are the ones who took action while they still had the advantage of good health, time, and choice.
And when it comes to life insurance, those things can make all the difference.
Ah, summer. Fun in the sun. Trips to the beach. Long evenings in the yard with friends. Whatever your idea of summer fun is, decluttering and organizing your house is likely not on that list.
But summer is when many of our homes seem to unravel. Between kids being home, spontaneous outings, travel, and the steady stream of towels, sunscreen, and snacks, your usual systems can quickly fall apart. But that doesn't mean your system is broken. It could just mean you need a "summer mode" for your household. Here are some ideas to help.
Let's start with the kids and the many items that entertain them: Toys, games, arts & crafts, sports gear, etc. It can feel like it's all taking over your house. One way to stop that is to limit their access to everything with the "Swap Out Method". Divide their stuff into several bins, each one containing just a few toys, games, etc. The kids get one bin at at time, perhaps for a few days or a week. The remaining bins stay put away until it's time to swap it out for the next bin. Let's say you divided their stuff into 4 bins. That means 75% of it can't end up all over the house when they only have access to one bin at a time.

For any parents working from home, limiting interruptions throughout the day can be very important. Create a snack station with easy-to-reach options for the kids. Designate whose snack is whose with different color sticker dots. An activity cart could also provide direction when they're looking for something to do. Fill it with an arts & crafts project, coloring books & crayons, a few books, a puzzle… whatever will be easy for them to do on their own.
The summer sun is hot and unforgiving, so keep the summer essentials organized in one place. Leave a tote packed with sunscreen, hats and bug spray in your car so it's always with you wherever you go. Assign a bin with the same type of items near your back door so everyone in the family knows where to find them when they head outside and where they should put them back when they're done.
Speaking of the yard, deck boxes and outdoor cabinets are great for storing cushions, pool toys, outdoor games, colored chalk and anything else that would otherwise end up strewn all around. And if mosquitos and flies are "bugging" your family when you sit outside, consider buying an outdoor tower fan or a reflective fly-repelling table fan.
Wet bathing suits can create musty piles around your house. A small free-standing towel rack works as long as you have the space for it. If space is limited, suction cup hooks on a bathroom wall can serve the same purpose. Just put a boot tray underneath to catch drips. Suction hooks that twist and lock in place for a better seal work best in my experience. Another option is hanging a small mesh hamper behind a bathroom door. The most important part is everyone can reach and use whichever system you choose.
Hopefully some of those tips will help you spend more time relaxing and less time stressing over clutter and mess this summer. If you'd like links to any of the products I've mentioned, please fee free to email me at mzorbas@kitchenwise.com.
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Since 2017, owner Michelle Zorbas, CPO®, CWC has been helping homes & small businesses become more organized and efficient. Michelle is a Certified Professional Organizer & Productivity Specialist. She holds certifications in ADHD, Hoarding Issues, and Time Management & Productivity.
She and her husband Ken own Kitchen Wise Closet Wise of Bergen County, designing & installing custom organization solutions.
She's spent nearly a decade as a volunteer EMT in NY & NJ. Michelle currently serves on the Board of Directors for the Better Business Bureau of NJ.





The recipes appears in my cookbook Join My Table. You can mix strawberries and blueberries to serve your family and friends a red, white and blue dessert on our nation's 250th birthday.
2 cups flour 2 tsp baking powder 1/4 teaspoon baking soda 2 tbsp of sugar 3/4 tsp salt 1 1/2 cups heavy cream Fresh fruit
Directions Preheat oven to 350 degrees Mix all the ingredients together Then, form golf size balls of dough Place on parchment paper on cookie sheet on lightly oiled pan Bake for 8 to 10 minutes, or light brown on the top. Enjoy hot with fresh strawberries (you can use cherries), blueberries and/or whipped cream
Couples typically have a song they like to call their own. Perhaps it's the song they heard when they first met, or one from a favorite musician. Maybe it's the song they chose for their first dance at their wedding.
Jay and Mariana Della Valle's song wasn't on the radio at all. Jay wrote it himself and sang it to Mariana for the first time at one of his band's shows at Mexicali Live in Teaneck back in 2006.
In fact, Jay -a second-generation entertainer from Wayne- has been performing "special songs" for couples at weddings for more than 25 years.
As a musician, DJ/MC, and owner of Spinners Entertainment, Jay recognizes the privilege of being trusted with some of life's most important celebrations.
"There's something really meaningful about helping create memories people will carry forever," says Jay.
Similarly, Mariana, a hairstylist, finds purpose in being part of her clients' milestone as well.
"From first haircuts to proms and weddings, I get to be part of people's celebrations and important life events," Mariana explains. "I speak six languages, which helps me connect with people and meet them where they are. I do beautification and conversation really well - that's why my clients call me 'The Hairapist!'"
As a couple, where they started is winding road - through the Adirondacks- that lead to where they are now. They met in a cafe one sunny afternoon in Montreal, Canada where Jay was on a road trip with his buddies. He spotted Mariana having lunch with her colleagues and flirted with her until she agreed to come to his film premiere in NYC the following month. "I was immediately attracted to his distinctive handle bar mustache, a bold statement for a man in his 20's at that time", recalls Mariana, "it was sexy and complimented his whole singer-songwriter vibe!"
What started as a friendship and cross-boarder romance quickly became a long distance relationship which they describe as exciting and dynamic. They had fallen in love but were both busy and entrenched in their careers and businesses in their respective cities, seeing each other when they could and traveling together over the years.
Even after bringing children into the world and tying the knot in Costa Rica surrounded by over 100 of their closest friends and family, their interesting arrangement continued. For years the Della Valle's split their time seasonally - spending Spring/Summers in New Jersey for Jay's busy wedding season, Autumns in Montreal for Mariana's busiest time and Winters in Southern California just because they love it there and embraced the adventure of living between 3 cities before the kids started school.
"Via planes, trains and automobiles, somehow we made it all work!" exclaims Mariana, "a little unconventional to have a long-distance marriage with young kids in tow but we loved it!"
Ironically, it was the pandemic that finally brought the family together full-time.
"During Covid nobody cancelled their Weddings and Mitzvahs, they all just got postponed to 2021/2022, making me so busy with gigs I would have hardly been able to go to Montreal to see my wife and kids" explains Jay. "So that's when we decided we didn't want to be apart and started looking for a home in the F.L.O.W. area."
In August 2021, the family purchased their first home in Wyckoff's Coolidge section.
"Initially, we were attracted to Wyckoff for the public school system," says Mariana, "but we soon discovered how much more this town has to offer. We've made wonderful friends through our work, our faith, and the kids' sports and activities."
Their children have adjusted beautifully to life in the United States while still maintaining strong ties to friends and family in Montreal.
Sloane, a rising sophomore at Indian Hills High School, spends her summers babysitting and walking dogs in the neighborhood. She enjoys volleyball, baking, and meeting up with friends at Boulder Run.
Kai, a rising seventh grader at Dwight D. Eisenhower Middle School, is passionate about sports — especially basketball, jiu-jitsu, and snowboarding. He loves riding bikes around town with friends and meeting up at Memorial Field to play catch or shoot some hoops.
"If you ask Kai," laughs Mariana, "he'll tell you, 'I'm just living life and motivated to be the best version of myself.'"
"In many ways, the strong sense of community and safety we feel here gives kids the kind of idyllic childhood we remember from the '80s," says Jay. "We try to keep them active, social, outdoors, and go to all the town events like the Greek Festival or the pep rally and fireworks every September."
With weekends typically filled with weddings, performances, events, and Mariana's house calls for clients, the family enjoys entertaining spontaneously during the week.
"Ours is definitely a summer house," says Jay. "Our backyard is very private, and we love having families over for BBQs while the kids swim and in the pool and hang out in the hot tub."
The Della Valles also enjoy local adventures and family travel, whether it's camping in the Pine Barrens, renting a shore house, visiting Vermont, or heading back to Montreal. This summer they are looking forward to visiting Bar Harbor and Acadia National Park, with plans to see friends in Australia in 2027 already on the horizon.
Jay belongs to a local men's Bible study group and plays softball with the Wyckoff Cubs.
Mariana is passionate about yoga and can often be found practicing -and soon to be teaching- at Village Yoga in Glen Rock.
Live music remains central to the Della Valle family lifestyle, attending shows together whenever possible. The kids' very first concert was Guns N' Roses at MetLife Stadium.
"We had amazing seats," Jay says proudly. "Kai has been playing guitar since he was five years old, so seeing Slash perform up close absolutely blew his mind."
Mariana and the kids are also frequent audience members at Jay's own public performances.
Back in 2009, Jay teamed up with vocalist and violinist Nicole DeLoi to form Owls & Lions. What began as a guitar-and-violin duo performing cocktail hours and intimate gatherings has since evolved into a seven-piece Americana party rock band performing at weddings, festivals, corporate events, and music venues throughout the tri-state area and beyond.
Most recently, the band performed at the "Taste of Wyckoff", a fundraiser benefiting the Wyckoff Volunteer Fire Department at the local YMCA.
Blending everything from pop, rock, country, and Irish favorites to crowd-pleasing party anthems, Owls & Lions has become something of a sweetheart on New Jersey's niche wedding and event scene. But beyond performing covers, the band is also deeply committed to creating original music together.
"Writing songs is still one of the most rewarding parts of what we do," says Jay. "We've been working on a lot of original material as a band, and there's exciting new music in the pipeline that we're planning to release over the next 18 months."
Jay credits much of his talent and passion for entertainment to his parents Jacqueline & Jason Della Valle, who owned and ran Jason Craig Entertainment before his father's passing in 2017.
"I honor my dad's legacy by pouring my heart and soul into what I do," Jay says.
Today, the Della Valles say they feel grateful to call Wyckoff home. They are committed to finding new ways to serve their faith and their community and to keeping the family adventure alive by sprinkling the calendar with fun things to look forward to with friends and family!




As graduation parties, Father's Day celebrations, and summer backyard gatherings begin to fill the calendar, many hosts are looking for ways to entertain that feel both effortless and memorable. Charcuterie boards have quickly become a favorite — not only because they're beautiful, but because they're practical, flexible, and easy to tailor to any occasion.
"A thoughtfully crafted charcuterie board is more than just food — it's an experience that brings everyone to the table, from kids to adults."
What began as a simple arrangement of meats and cheeses has evolved into something much more. Today's charcuterie boards are designed for the way people like to eat — casually, socially, and at their own pace. Instead of worrying about serving times or keeping food hot, guests can graze, mix and match flavors, and enjoy the experience throughout the entire gathering.
They're especially well-suited for summer entertaining, where the goal is to keep things relaxed. Whether you're hosting a graduation celebration, a Father's Day get-together, or a casual backyard party, a well-built board can serve as both the centerpiece and the main food offering. You can even personalize it for the occasion — incorporating school colors or adding fun details like cheese letter cutouts — to make it feel more special.
With the right approach, charcuterie boards can also be a healthier option. The key is to think beyond a meat-and-cheese-heavy spread and instead focus on balance, color, and variety.
One of the most rewarding parts of creating these boards is seeing how well they work for the entire family. Kids often gravitate toward the fresh, colorful options — dipping vegetables into hummus, reaching for fruit, and trying new foods simply because they're presented in a fun and approachable way. It often eliminates the need for separate "kid food," making things easier for everyone.
If you're creating your own board, start with quality ingredients. Choose meats that are minimally processed and, when possible, nitrate-free. Freshly sliced meats tend to have better texture and flavor, so visiting a trusted deli can make a noticeable difference.
Next, think about your base — crackers and breads. Swapping out refined options for whole grain or seeded varieties adds both texture and nutritional value. It's also helpful to include gluten-free options so that more guests can enjoy the spread.
Fruits and vegetables should play a major role, not just act as garnish. Aim for a variety of colors and textures — berries, grapes, citrus, cucumbers, peppers and more — to create a board that is both vibrant and inviting.
Spreads and dips are another place where you can make simple, healthier swaps. Fresh alternatives like hummus or lighter, cottage cheese–based dips offer great flavor while keeping the overall board balanced.
Cheese remains an essential part of any charcuterie board, but balance is key. Including a mix of lighter cheeses, like Swiss or fresh mozzarella, alongside richer options like brie or cheddar allows you to enjoy a variety of flavors without making the board feel too heavy.
Ultimately, the goal is to create something that feels abundant, inviting, and easy to enjoy. A well-designed charcuterie board brings people together, encourages conversation, and allows guests to interact with the food in a relaxed way.
And if putting all of that together feels like more than you want to take on, that's where we come in. At Graze Craze of Wyckoff, we're always happy to help create a board that fits your event — so you can focus on enjoying your guests and making the most of the moment.
Graze Craze of Wyckoff
201-468-0023
If you're like most homeowners, your air conditioning system isn't something you think about—until it stops working. And unfortunately, that usually happens on the hottest day of the year.
At Climate Plus, we see it all the time. The good news is, many of those breakdowns could have been avoided with a simple annual tune-up.
Your AC system works hard, especially during the summer. Over time, dirt builds up, parts start to wear down, and things can slowly get out of balance. When that happens, your system has to work harder just to keep your home cool. That extra strain is what leads to breakdowns and shortens the life of your system. That's where a tune-up comes in.
Think of it like getting an oil change for your car. You're not fixing a problem—you're preventing one. During a tune-up, we go through your system and make sure everything is clean and running properly. We check refrigerant levels, electrical connections, airflow, and overall performance. It's all about catching small issues before they turn into bigger, more expensive problems.
One of the biggest benefits is peace of mind. Most AC issues don't happen overnight—they build up over time. A worn part or restricted airflow might not seem like a big deal at first, but left alone, it can lead to a full system breakdown. Regular maintenance helps us catch those issues early, when they're easier and more affordable to fix.
Tune-ups also help your system last longer. When everything is clean and running efficiently, there's less wear and tear. Your system doesn't have to work as hard, which means less stress on the components over time. That can add years to the life of your AC and help you avoid replacing it sooner than expected.
You'll also notice better efficiency. A well-maintained system uses less energy to cool your home, which can help keep your utility bills under control during the summer months.
At the end of the day, an AC tune-up is one of the simplest ways to protect your investment. It helps prevent breakdowns, improves efficiency, and extends the life of your system.
Our recommendation is to have your AC system checked once a year, ideally in the spring before the heat kicks in. It's a small step that can save you time, money, and stress down the road.
At Climate Plus, we also offer membership plans designed to make this even easier for our customers. We remind you when your tune-ups are due, so nothing slips through the cracks, and your system stays protected year after year. Our Climate Plus family plans are built to protect your unit—and your pockets—by helping you avoid costly repairs and keep your system running at its best.
Because when your system is taken care of, your home stays comfortable—and that's exactly how it should feel.
Climate Plus 5558 Berkshire Valley Rd Oak Ridge 973-221-5940






There is no shortage of cookbooks when it comes to meeting unique palates; from plant-based to a carnivore diet; farm-to-table to sweets and treats; family style to small dishes for one; there's something for everyone. Female bloggers are turning their passion into businesses, bringing their wildly successful and popular websites and blogs to the shelves, releasing cookbooks--many of which have hit bestseller lists. Check out some of the fantastic selection the Wyckoff Library has to offer:
Carleigh Bodrug, PlantYou founder and author of the #1 NY Times bestselling cookbook of the same name, dreamed of helping people "discover the power of adding more plants to their plates." With a background in journalism and a personal wake-up call to change her traditional "meat and potatoes" diet, Bodrug "connected the dots between food, health, and well-being" and founded PlantYou in 2016. Since then, the site has grown to over 11 million followers across social media, all looking for tips and tricks to guide them in embracing a plant-focused diet. Along with the website, Bodrug launched a digital meal-planning program to make the switch to plant-based easy, accessible, and enjoyable. Her cookbooks, including PlantYou, PlantYou Scrappy Cooking, and PlantYou: Quickies (releasing, September 2026), not only offer hundreds of delicious and healthy recipes, but are set up infographic style, making them both appealing to the eye and simple to work with. Bodrug is passionate about her work and says, "I'm here to make [eating plant-based] easy, delicious, and empowering."
Love Real Food offers a fresh approach to cooking from Cookie and Kate founder, Kathryne Taylor. Based off her popular blog, and named for Kathryne and her canine sidekick, Cookie, the site offers a celebration of good food; "real, sustainable food that delights the senses and nourishes the body" and carries that approach into the cookbook. As a vegetarian and supporter of all-natural food, Taylor grew her blog from a hobby to a business that now caters to millions of site visitors every month. A self-taught cook, Taylor believes good food and good company go hand in hand and that recipes should be fun and flexible which is evident in the recipes her book offers including soups, slaws, dips, and even sweets for the "occasional indulgence."
Inspiring a love for food and the "courage to try something new" is the thought behind Tieghan Gerard's Half-Baked Harvest. Having grown up in a big family, Gerard enjoyed pitching in when it came to meals, and soon found a natural love for cooking, eventually taking over her family's kitchen. When her family moved to Colorado, Gerard found new inspiration working out of a converted horse barn where she now keeps her studio, specially designed around her lifestyle that allows her to "spend my days experimenting with new recipes, photographing my creations, feeding my family, and making one giant mess in the process." Having appeared on numerous cooking shows and featured in a variety of magazines, Gerard has four cookbooks to her name—Half Baked Harvest Cookbook, Half Baked Harvest Super Simple, Half Baked Harvest Every Day, and Half Baked Harvest Quick & Cozy—and has built a successful business doing what she loves.
Having started as a hobby to distract from the demands of grad school, Chungah Rhee's Damn Delicious has grown into one of the top food blogs, reaching millions every week. Rhee uses "simple, fresh ingredients and [transforms] them into sophisticated and elegant meals for the everyday home cook." Her recipes are designed to be simple, easy, and full of flavor and allow for less time in the kitchen and more time enjoying the food at the table. From one-pot dishes and slow cooker meals to copycat recipes and last-minute dessert ideas, all one hundred recipes make for some damn delicious food.
NY Times bestselling author Deb Perelman has built her brand around fearless, unfussy cooking. What began in 2006 as a way to share simple recipes that will lead to success in the kitchen, ultimately turned into the wildly successful Smitten Kitchen, a brand that caters to home cooks looking for simple yet delicious recipes and kitchen tutorials that can provide guidance and "keepers...recipes you'll keep around for good." With her cookbooks, all consisting of recipes designed to be relied on for years, Perelman is a welcome presence to home cooks looking to take the guesswork out of cooking and be put at ease in the kitchen.
For Carrian Cheney, one half of the husband-and-wife team behind Oh Sweet Basil, time in the kitchen is a family affair. Having built their brand to cater to families low on time but who want to not only create fresh, family-friendly food, but also memories through family togetherness in the kitchen, the Cheneys offer tried and true recipes—sometimes with a twist--designed to bring the whole family together at the table. Their cookbooks, Our Sweet Basil Kitchen and Raised in the Kitchen, aim to make "memories from scratch one recipe at a time."
What began as a way to slim down a few favorite recipes quickly turned into a "highly rewarding labor of love" for Skinnytaste founder Gina Homolka. The Skinnytaste philosophy centers around creating flavorful, nutritious recipes designed to cater to everyone; whether looking to "shed a few pounds, eat a little healthier, or meal prep," the hundreds of healthy recipes found in her eight cookbooks will provide the inspiration to prepare quick, simple, and healthy recipes all while saving time and money.
For many, what's a meal without dessert? Sarah Fennel, founder of Broma Bakery, believes bakers of all levels can create delicious and satisfying sweets and treats as long as one has "a deep, unwavering love for dessert." Fennel's website stemmed from a passion that combined her love of baking with an interest in photography and began when she was a homesick college student craving her mom's mouth-watering desserts. Today, her success is evident in the millions of visitors to her site weekly as well as well as in her cookbook, Sweet Tooth, a collection of recipes she hopes will bring happiness, provide a bit of childhood nostalgia, or inspire one to drop everything and bake to satisfy a sweet craving.
Turning passion into success, these female entrepreneurs continue to bring a variety of recipes, cooking skills, and pure joy to readers and food enthusiasts everywhere. For the above cookbook titles and so much more, stop by the Wyckoff Library to peruse the shelves or check out the e-offerings on Libby and Hoopla and start planning your next meal!


As the weather warms up and weekends start filling with trips down the shore, it's the perfect time to start summerizing your home. Before you pack up and head out, taking a few preventative steps can save you from major headaches while you're away. Two of the most important systems to understand—and make sure are working properly—are your leak detection system and your sump pump.
A smart leak detector like the Moen Flo system does far more than just alert you to a problem. It is installed directly on your main water line and continuously monitors water flow, pressure, and usage patterns throughout your home. Over time, it "learns" your normal water habits—when you typically use water, how much, and how often. If it detects something unusual, like a small continuous flow from a hidden leak or a sudden burst pipe, it immediately sends an alert to your phone. In more serious cases, it can automatically shut off your home's water supply to prevent damage. This is especially valuable when you're away for the weekend or on vacation, because even a small leak left unchecked can cause thousands of dollars in damage. That's why many insurance companies are now requiring or strongly encouraging homeowners to install these systems. Titanium Plumbing & Heating installs and sets up these devices so your home is protected 24/7.

Your sump pump plays a completely different—but equally important—role. It's designed to protect your home from groundwater and heavy rain. Typically located in a pit (called a sump basin) in your basement or crawlspace, the pump activates when water fills the pit to a certain level. A float switch rises with the water, triggering the pump to turn on and push the water out and away from your home through a discharge pipe. This prevents flooding, water damage, and even mold growth. If the pump fails—whether from age, a stuck float, or loss of power during a storm—water can quickly accumulate and cause serious damage. That's why testing your sump pump before the rainy season is critical, and in many cases, having a backup system or battery backup adds an extra layer of protection.
Summer should be about relaxing, not worrying about your home. Titanium Plumbing & Heating is ready to take your call—whether you need preventative maintenance before heading down the shore or emergency service when you need it most. From installing advanced leak detection systems to ensuring your sump pump is working properly, our team is here to keep your home safe all season long.







Every market cycle comes with a story.
"This time is different."
At any given moment, that story may be driven by geopolitics, economic uncertainty, rising interest rates, or an unexpected global event. The details change, but the feeling is familiar—headlines intensify, markets react, and uncertainty begins to dominate investor thinking. It feels serious. It feels unpredictable. It feels different.
But what if it isn't?
History doesn't repeat exactly, but it often rhymes—especially when it comes to how markets respond to periods of conflict and uncertainty. Across decades of global events, a pattern has quietly persisted. Markets tend to decline as uncertainty builds, often before the full scope of a situation is even clear. As events unfold and the range of outcomes becomes more defined—even if not resolved—markets have historically found a way to stabilize. And over time, recoveries have followed, often sooner than expected.
This dynamic can feel counterintuitive. War and geopolitical conflict represent real human tragedy and economic disruption. Logically, they seem like events that should derail markets entirely. But markets are not simply reflections of current conditions—they are mechanisms for pricing expectations about the future. And more than anything else, markets struggle with uncertainty. When uncertainty is highest, volatility follows. When uncertainty begins to lift, even slightly, markets begin to adjust.
Looking back provides helpful perspective. During World War II, markets declined sharply following the initial shock of U.S. involvement, but they bottomed well before the war ended and moved higher as the path forward became clearer. During the Gulf War in the early 1990s, equities fell amid fears of oil disruption and global instability, only to rebound once the conflict began and uncertainty diminished. Similar patterns emerged around the early 2000s, where periods of geopolitical tension created short-term volatility but ultimately gave way to longer-term market expansion driven by underlying economic fundamentals.
More broadly, history suggests that while wars often introduce short-term volatility, they have not consistently derailed long-term market returns. In many cases, markets have continued to grow through and beyond periods of conflict, supported by corporate earnings, policy responses, and the resilience of the global economy.
That said, not all periods are identical. Some conflicts have had more pronounced economic consequences—particularly when they trigger broader disruptions such as sustained energy shocks or inflationary pressures. The 1970s serve as a reminder that when geopolitical events spill into the real economy in a meaningful way, market outcomes can be more challenging. Every environment carries its own set of variables, and those differences matter.
But then again, there are always reasons why any given moment feels unique.
The greater risk for investors is not that the situation is unprecedented—it's that it feels unprecedented enough to justify abandoning discipline. Time and again, investors respond to uncertainty by pulling back, moving to cash, and waiting for clarity. Yet clarity tends to arrive only after markets have already begun to recover. What feels like a prudent, protective decision in the moment can ultimately become a costly one over time.
A well-constructed financial plan is designed with this reality in mind. It does not depend on predicting geopolitical events or perfectly timing market movements. Instead, it assumes that uncertainty, volatility, and unexpected shocks are a normal part of investing. Diversification, patience, and discipline are not just theoretical concepts—they are practical tools built specifically for environments like these.

So when you hear the phrase "this time is different," it's worth pausing.
Maybe it is. Every period has its own story, its own risks, and its own unknowns. But the underlying behavior of markets—and investors—has remained remarkably consistent over time.
Volatility rises. Headlines intensify. Emotions follow.
And then, gradually, markets adapt.
Not because the world becomes certain, but because uncertainty becomes more familiar.
So, the better question isn't whether this time is different.
It's whether your investment portfolio and financial plan are prepared for when it isn't.















To support mental health awareness, eliminate stigma, and prioritize wellness, Christian Health will be hosting a walk at its Wyckoff campus (301 Sicomac Ave.) on Saturday, May 16, 2026, at 9:30 a.m. Check-in begins at 8:45 a.m.
The event will feature a half-mile walking loop, with participants invited to complete as many laps as they wish. Registration is free, and attendees are encouraged to bring friends and family. Participants will also have the opportunity to connect with mental health professionals and Christian Health staff.
All are welcome. Attendees will receive a complimentary T-shirt. Light refreshments, including coffee, water, and snacks, will be provided. On-site accessible restroom facilities will be available.
To register, please visit CHMHWalk26.GiveSmart.com.
If you don't eat organic, consider eating the Dirty Dozen organic. The Dirty Dozen are the fruits and vegetables that contain the most pesticides. Take a look at the Dirty Dozen list on the Environmental Working Group's (EWG) website: https://www.ewg.org/
Count your colors, not your calories!
Look for the colors of the rainbow on the foods that you eat.
AFTER RINSING THE QUINOA, COOK IT IN THE BONE BROTH UNTIL THE BROTH IS ABSORBED.
The Wyckoff Environmental Commission held a composting workshop in March and share tips on how to compost.
We are purebred Italian Greyhounds.
Don't confuse us with our cousin the racing greyhound. We are elegant, affectionate, intelligent, and small lap dogs.
My name is Pipa and I am the oldest and largest. I am 5-years-old and weigh 15 pounds.
Luna and Mila are sisters and are 2-years old and weigh only 8 pounds.
Our human caregivers are Anne, Bob and Valerie.
We love when they take us for walks. We have lots of energy!
When we are in our fenced in yard, we love to run around. We always hope a squirrel will pop over the fence and we can chase it around.
Did you know we only have one layer of fur?
In colder weather, we happily sit while we are outfitted with warm clothing.
You can definitely call us fashionistas!
We even like wearing hats!
But you can hold the cannoli; we love fresh turkey as a special treat.
We love to sit on our humans's laps and cuddle-up.
La Dolce Vita!
How easy would it be to leave behind your career, friends and your dream home on six acres for a chance to fulfill a dream? In 2025 Chris and Tricia Koch along with their twelve year old daughter Kinslee, decided to move out east. "My dad was born and raised in Bergenfield," said Tricia. Although raised in Washington State, Tricia spent summers taking Jersey Shore trips down to Wildwood and Beach Haven, Long Beach Island with family. "I love that I have so many memories with my cousins on our summer trips," Tricia said. Creating so many wonderful memories with her New Jersey family motivated Tricia to relocate to New Jersey. Although Tricia is an only child, her cousins felt like her siblings.
Both Tricia and Chris attended the same elementary, middle school and high school. Chris graduated two years before Tricia. While attending the Seattle Art Institute, Tricia traveled to The Sunbreak Cafe in Auburn, Washington, where Chris had worked for over 20 years. By the end of breakfast, Chris had Tricia's phone number. After numerous attempts to go on a date, Tricia finally agreed and said, "ok, I will go on a date with you but I am not going to marry you." Funny how things can change. Chris and Tricia have now been together for 20 years and recently celebrated their 16th wedding anniversary this past February.
Tricia has been an esthetician for 19 years, including eight years as a spa manager. In January 2025, Tricia accepted a job with Greenwich Medical Spa. "I flew into New Jersey on a Saturday and started working on Monday morning." Chris and Kinslee stayed behind in Washington so Kinslee could remain in school until her spring break and so Tricia could house hunt. "I lived with family in Waldwick while commuting to Greenwich for six weeks before I got settled into my GMS location in Closter New Jersey," Tricia said. Chris has been working for Costco for ten years and was able to easily transfer to a different location. "We had a big house on six acres and I knew I would be giving up a lot by moving to New Jersey," Chris said. Their home featured twelve raised garden beds along with a greenhouse. Both Tricia and Chris spend a lot of time outside growing vegetables, herbs and a variety of flowers. "There is something so rewarding about growing your own food," Tricia said.
Chris, Tricia and Kinslee finally found their home in the Lincoln neighborhood of Wyckoff. Chris learned a lot about their 1939 home from neighbor Joe who has lived in the home next door for 65 years. Chris, who enjoys tackling home projects like millwork and masonry, made many of the home's upgrades. "I know it sounds strange, but I really love pressure washing. I find it relaxing and love the instant gratification from it," said Chris. Chris does love being home and spending time doing projects but his real passion is his motorcycle. He is looking forward to better weather ahead so he is able to take more frequent rides.

When the Koch Family isn't working on home projects, working hard in their careers, or attending Kinslee's sporting activities, they spend as much time with family as they can. Spending time going out and trying new restaurants, hosting family dinners, and having impromptu cousin hangouts. "That's why we are here. I am so grateful that I can be a part of my nieces' and nephews' lives. I attend every wrestling match or gymnastics competition that I can," Tricia said.
The Kochs are so happy they found a home in Wyckoff and love being a part of the community. "None of this would have been possible without my husband's support. Even though this has been a tough transition, he has been my number one supporter," Tricia said. "If I hadn't taken this chance to take the job at GMS and move to New Jersey, I think I would always have regretted it. We only have one life. I want to show Kinslee that it's never too late to go after your dreams. Even if that means not everyone in your life will support it. I really believe that our family is living proof that things can turn out better than you could have hoped."
In real estate, I've seen it all — bidding wars, off-market deals, emotional closings. But there's one issue that continues to blindside homeowners in Wyckoff and surrounding Bergen County towns:
Work done without a permit.
It usually starts with good intentions.
A homeowner finishes a basement. Replaces a hot water heater. Installs central air. Adds a bathroom. Maybe a contractor offers to "do it on the side" for less. Maybe someone thinks skipping the permit will save on taxes. Maybe it feels like unnecessary red tape.
On paper, it looks like you're saving money.
In reality? You may be setting yourself up to lose tens of thousands of dollars — or worse, your buyer.
There's a common belief that:
For years, once we signed a listing agreement, my office would immediately send sellers a letter advising them to:
The CO is typically the seller's responsibility.
But here's where it gets expensive.
In several recent transactions, everything seemed smooth — until right before closing. That's when we discovered improvements had been completed without permits.
What happens next?
And here's the part most people don't factor in:
There is typically a minimum 20-day wait just to obtain the permit.
Then you wait for inspections.
If it fails? You fix it and wait again.
Meanwhile, your buyer is packed. Their rate lock is expiring. Their moving truck is booked.
They may not wait.
When this happens, here's what can follow:
And when a home falls out of contract late in the game, the stigma can follow it.
What seemed like a few thousand dollars saved can quickly become a five-figure problem.
Across Bergen County, municipalities are tightening enforcement. Inspectors are less flexible about timelines and far less sympathetic to "I didn't know."
Because the truth is — homeowners are expected to know.
And when you sell, ignorance isn't a defense.
Beyond the fines and delays, there's a deeper risk.
If unpermitted electrical, plumbing, or structural work causes damage or injury after closing, liability can come back to you. Disclosure laws in New Jersey are clear: material defects and improvements must be properly represented.
Cutting corners today can create exposure tomorrow.
If you're thinking about selling — or even if you're not — do this now:
Waiting until you're under contract is often too late.
As someone who negotiates aggressively on behalf of my clients, I can tell you this: buyers today are educated. Their attorneys review permit histories. Their inspectors look for red flags. Their lenders ask questions.
Surprises at the eleventh hour are rarely small.
I understand the temptation. Permits feel like extra time, extra cost, extra hassle.
But in real estate, shortcuts are rarely shortcuts.
If you're unsure about work done in your home, address it before you hit the market. Protect your timeline. Protect your equity. Protect your leverage.
Because what you thought was saving you money...
could be the very thing that costs you a small fortune.
If you have questions about preparing your home properly for resale in Wyckoff or surrounding towns, I'm always happy to guide you through the process before it becomes urgent.
National Library Week is celebrated every year and is a wonderful time to highlight the valuable role libraries play in transforming lives and communities. Bringing together discovery, connection, and joy, this year's theme, "Find Your Joy", encourages everyone to visit the library and learn all that it offers to bring happiness to communities. From books and media to programming including lectures and crafts, as well as technology assistance and book clubs, there's something for everyone.

This year, April 19-25 included events and programs that continue the tradition of recognizing the important role libraries have. On April 22, the Wyckoff Library hosted a luncheon at the nearby Indian Trail Club featuring special guest, New York Times bestselling author Jill Santopolo. Santopolo is the author of the Reese's Book Club pick, The Light We Lost which was a favorite selection of the Escapist Reader Book Club at the library. Tickets to the event included a buffet lunch, dessert, and the choice between two of Santopolo's books, The Love We Found, the long-awaited sequel to The Light We Lost, or her first picture book, Can You Grow a Striped Banana?, coincidentally releasing that week. In addition, previous titles including Santopolo's adult novels Stars in an Italian Sky, Everything After, and More Than Words were available for purchase and signing courtesy of the library's official book store partner, Bookends in Ridgewood.
The luncheon is one of many events made possible by the generous bequest to the library by the Rizzo sisters, Evelyn and Helen. The Wyckoff Library Children's Room is named for the sisters who were longtime Wyckoff residents, teachers and active members of the community. Residents may remember seeing the sisters as they took daily walks through town - often with the library as their destination.

While library week may be over, be sure to stop in anytime to sign up for a library card. Patrons may also download the BCCLS app to gain access anytime, anywhere to your library account.
As author Mary McNear once said, "Public libraries are the heart and soul of any community." A world of joy awaits at the Wyckoff Library!
You've probably heard people at work, the coffee shop, or family gatherings say that higher education has lost its way. They explain that colleges have become too expensive, too political, too disconnected from the real world. I understand where the crisis of confidence comes from. But as someone who has spent years working at a regional public college, I can tell you that story doesn't hold up everywhere.
Too often, conversations about college focus on a narrow set of brand-name universities. Those institutions serve an important purpose. But they are not the only places where students receive an exceptional education, and they are certainly not the only where students thrive.
At Ramapo College of New Jersey, more families are recognizing that distinction.
Over the past two years, we have welcomed the largest incoming classes in our history. Applications continue to grow, and admission has become more competitive. More students are choosing to stay in New Jersey because they see the value of an education that is rigorous, personal, and focused on the future. They are choosing a public liberal arts college not as a fallback, but as a confident choice.
I believe that decision reflects something larger about what higher education must accomplish today.
In an economy shaped by rapid technological change and shifting career paths, narrow technical preparation simply isn't enough. Students need to analyze complex problems, communicate across differences, adapt to new tools, and exercise sound judgment when answers aren't obvious. The skills that matter most are habits of mind that last a lifetime.
A public liberal arts education is designed to cultivate precisely those habits.
At many large research universities, faculty are evaluated primarily on research productivity and grant acquisition. Undergraduate teaching can become secondary to those priorities. At Ramapo, it is central. Every course is taught by faculty. We don't rely on large lectures or teaching assistants. Students are known by name. They speak up. They wrestle with their thinking. They build real relationships with professors who continue to mentor them after the semester ends.
That scale matters. In smaller classrooms, students learn to articulate their ideas clearly, defend them thoughtfully, and reconsider them when necessary. They practice listening as much as speaking. In a moment when public discourse often feels polarized and superficial, the ability to think carefully and engage respectfully is not incidental; it is essential.
Our academic programs intentionally blend depth and breadth. A liberal arts education is not defined by a single major. It is an approach to learning that strengthens performance in every field—including business, nursing, the sciences, social work, and the arts.
A nursing student studies ethics and policy alongside clinical care. A business analytics major learns not only how to interpret data, but how to explain it and apply it responsibly. Science students consider the social and human implications of their work. Across disciplines, students connect technical expertise with cultural awareness, critical thinking, and long-term responsibility.
Technical expertise may open a first door, but the ability to think critically, collaborate across differences, and adapt to change sustains a career over decades. In industries transformed by artificial intelligence and global markets, graduates must do more than execute tasks. They must exercise judgment.
Parents often ask what distinguishes a liberal arts college from larger university models. One answer lies in how we focus on our undergraduates. While Ramapo offers graduate and doctoral programs, undergraduate education remains the heart of our academic community. That focus shapes every decision we make from class size to experiential learning to research and internships. We ensure students graduate ready for a first job or for competitive graduate and professional study.
Another distinction is stability. Institutions that operate at a human scale and prioritize teaching are able to remain focused on student growth rather than external pressures or shifting national trends. That consistency benefits students and families alike.
Finally, a public liberal arts college combines rigor with accessibility. Families can invest in an intellectually demanding education without assuming the financial burden often associated with private or out-of-state institutions. That balance becomes especially important as students consider graduate study or entrepreneurial paths after graduation.
At Ramapo, our graduates leave prepared not only to earn a living, but to lead meaningful lives. Many remain in the region, contributing to the economic and civic vitality of New Jersey. Others carry what they have learned here into communities far beyond our state.
For families navigating the pressures of college choice, I encourage them to not ask "What is the biggest name?" but instead "Where will my student be challenged and supported to thrive in a changing world?"
Increasingly, the answer is found at a public liberal arts college, quietly and confidently doing the work that matters most.
Ramapo College of New Jersey
505 Ramapo Valley Rd, Mahwah
201-684-7500
www.ramapo.edu
When the sun sets, your home doesn't have to fade into the shadows. Thoughtfully designed outdoor lighting does more than illuminate a path—it creates safety, beauty, and atmosphere while boosting your home's overall value. From highlighting architectural details to making your backyard feel like an evening retreat, the benefits of outdoor lighting are both practical and stylish.
One of the most important reasons homeowners invest in outdoor lighting is peace of mind. Well-lit walkways, driveways, and entryways reduce the risk of accidents, helping family and guests navigate safely after dark. Strategic lighting also acts as a deterrent to potential intruders, ensuring your property feels secure even in the late hours. Moon lighting, accent lighting and pathway lighting are small additions that make a big difference in everyday safety.
A beautifully lit exterior instantly elevates your home's curb appeal. By accentuating landscaping features, architectural details, and front entrances, outdoor lighting creates a warm welcome for visitors while leaving a lasting impression. Real estate experts note that homes with exterior lighting often enjoy higher resale value, as buyers recognize both the aesthetic and functional benefits. It's a smart upgrade that combines style with return on investment.
Why limit the use of your patio, deck, or garden to daylight hours? Outdoor lighting transforms your yard into a usable, inviting extension of your home. Soft string lights draped overhead, uplighting on trees, or glowing moon lights around seating areas create ambiance perfect for entertaining or unwinding with family. With the right design, your outdoor spaces become cozy and functional well past sunset.
Outdoor lighting isn't just about illumination—it's about enhancing lifestyle. It keeps you safer, highlights the best of your property, and makes outdoor evenings more enjoyable. Whether you're hosting a summer dinner, welcoming guests to your front door, or simply enjoying a quiet night under the stars, the right lighting ensures your home shines brilliantly.
If the surf is up at the Jersey Shore, Connor McAuley will definitely grab his board and try to catch a wave.
The 18-year old and class of 2025 Don Bosco Preparatory High School graduate spent summer days at his grandparents house in Mantoloking.
"I probably was on a boogie board first but I would watch my dad Christian surf and wanted to learn," said Connor.
His wish came true and at 8-years-old his dad had him up on a board and surfing.
While riding a wave may be exhilarating, it is the calm before the thrill that appeals to Connor.
"I love sitting on the board and the peacefulness while you wait for a wave," said Connor. "It is relaxing and calming out on the open water."

In addition to New Jersey, Connor has surfed in Costa Rica, Rhode Island and in Europe.
"My mom, Carolina Giraldo's family is from Spain so I have surfed there during our visits," said Connor. "I have also surfed in Nazare, Portugal."
His current favorite surfing spot is one not commonly thought of as a surfing destination… Rhode Island.
"Lots of the beaches are points and jetties and the push will allow you to surf multiple minutes," said Connor.

Has he ever encountered a shark?
"I have seen them in Mantoloking," said Connor. "I just sat on the board and the shark will leave you alone."
Connor surfs on a 5', 11" performance board.
"You start off on a 7' board when you are first learning to surf because it is easier to balance and stand," said Connor. "The biggest wave I ever surfed was about 15-16 feet."
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Many kids are fascinated by dragons that can fly, blow fire, and possess magical powers. Dragon-themed chapter books capture young readers' imaginations by allowing them to enter a fantastical world, filled with excitement and adventure.
How To Train Your Dragon by Cressida Cowell is an action-packed, hilarious modern classic series of twelve books, based upon the adventures and misadventures of a ten-year-old Viking boy, named Hiccup Horrendous Haddock the Third. He is the quiet son of the chief of his tribe, the Hairy Hooligans, and is trying to pass an important initiation test by catching and training a dragon on his own. His life changes when he meets a dragon named Toothless, who seems to be quite different from what Hiccup dreamed of. There are currently four movies based upon the series, with the fifth being released in June, 2025.
Dragon Keepers by Kate Klimo is a series of six books about the adventures of ten-year-old cousins, Jesse and Daisy, who have always dreamed of something unusual and extraordinary to happen to them. Their wish comes true when they find a dragon egg that is about to hatch. They name the hatchling Emmy, and hide her in a sock drawer, vowing to take care of her and protect her from the villainous Saint George.
The Dragon Realm adventure series by Katie and Kevin Tsang is filled with epic quests, alternate realities, hidden realms, and plenty of laugh-out-loud humor. Dragon Mountain, the first of five in the series, begins with four kids, Billy, Dylan, Charlotte, and Ling-Fei who meet at a summer camp and discover a passage inside a mountain where four dragons have been trapped by powerful magic. As the kids bond with the dragons, the dragons become stronger, and the kids gain powers of their own. They must work together to defeat the Dragon of Death, who aims to destroy both dragons and humans.
The Boy Who Grew Dragons by Andy Shepherd tells the story of Tomas, a boy who discovers a mysterious tree that produces dragon fruit in his grandfather's garden. When he takes the fruit back to his house, he is shocked to see it unexpectedly hatch into a tiny, fire-breathing dragon. He begins to care for the dragon, named Flicker, but soon realizes that the tree is continuously growing more dragon fruit, and therefore more pet dragons. Many fun and hilarious adventures ensue as Tomas does his best to manage his new companions. The adventure and chaos continue in the sequel, The Boy Who Lived with Dragons.
Where the Mountain Meets the Moon by Grace Lin, the first in a trilogy, is a heartwarming story about a girl named Minli who spends her days working hard in the fields and nights listening to her father tell fantastic tales about the Jade Dragon and the Old Man of the Moon.
There are currently five books in the Dragons in a Bag series by Zetta Elliott, whose protagonist is Jaxon, a nine-year-old boy living in Brooklyn. When Jax spends the afternoon with his elderly neighbor, he soon finds himself thrust into a space-time continuum where he must help three baby dragons get back into the magical realm. He uncovers some interesting family revelations during his adventures.
The House with a Dragon in It by Nick Lake is about a girl named Summer who goes to live with a foster family. She feels very lonely as she tries to adjust to a new school and town. Her life changes when a mysterious hole opens up in the living room, which leads down to a dragon who promises her three wishes. As she begins to use these wishes, the hole in the floor gets bigger, and she realizes that she is jeopardizing her biggest wish of all, to find a permanent home.
The Dragon in the Library by Louie Stowell is a funny and fast-paced adventure story about a girl named Kit who doesn't like to read, but is dragged along to the library one day by her two best friends. She is convinced that it will be a boring afternoon, until she uncovers a plot by a power-hungry tycoon that puts the library and its resident dragon who has been hiding there, in danger. Kit realizes that it is up to her to find a way to save them.
Brandon Mull's Fablehaven series of five books tells the story of Kendra and Seth Sorenson, who visit their grandparents' farm in Connecticut only to discover a hidden sanctuary, where magical creatures are being protected from extinction. They soon become involved in the challenges of keeping Fablehaven safe from the villains who want to control and exploit its magic.
Kendra and Seth continue to use their skills, knowledge, and wits in Dragonwatch, the sequel series of five books. This series begins with them being sent to Wyrmroost, a dragon sanctuary where Celebrant, King of the Dragons, feels that it is time to regain their freedom, and plots an uprising.
Spark, by Sarah Beth Durst is about Mina, a shy girl from an Alorrian farm, where storm beasts and their guardians create perfect weather every day. Mina forms a bond with a dragon-like lightning beast named Pixit, and they discover that her country's perfect weather is coming at a great cost. Pixit helps Mina to believe in herself, and together they are determined to confront the powerful, corrupt authorities, and spread the truth.
Lightningborn is the first book in the Storm Dragons series by Julie Kagawa, with Firebred due to be released in April, 2025. Remy is a poor boy trying to survive the mean streets of Cutthroat Wedge. Gem is a princess who is determined to convince her teachers that she is not spoiled and lazy. Their lives change forever when their fates collide thanks to a baby dragon named Storm, believed to be extinct. They must work together to protect Storm from the evil pirate, Jhaeros, who wants to claim the rare dragon for himself.
Seekers of the Wild Realm, the first in the duology by Alexandra Ott is about a twelve-year-old girl named Bryn, who lives on a small island near the Wild Realm, a fantastical, untamed wilderness. Seekers are allowed to visit the Wild Realm, and Bryn would love to become one, but only boys have ever been chosen. Ari, a boy who also wants to become a Seeker, bonds with Bryn over their love of magical animals. Ari offers to train her if she helps care for a baby dragon he has been hiding, and they secretly travel to the Wild Realm together.
The Last Dragon on Mars is the first in The Dragonships series by Scott Reintgen. Fans of Eragon are sure to enjoy this one, as Lunar Jones, a boy living on Mars unexpectedly becomes a dragon rider. The planet is dying, and those left behind are struggling to survive, when Lunar discovers a dragon named Dread. He is thrust into the unexpected role of saving his planet from a curse placed by the Ares, the last dragon of Mars.
Lisa McMann's The Unwanteds series of seven books is set in a dystopian world called Quill, where kids are sorted into categories based on their abilities. Aaron and Alex are identical twins, who are separated at age thirteen. While Aaron is sent to a university, Alex finds himself in Artime, a fantastical place where kids learn magic. When a threat to the survival of Artime arises, the bond between the brothers is tested, and they find themselves pitted against each other.
Dragon Captives is the first of seven in the sequel series, The Unwanteds Quests. Fifer and Thisbe Stowe, the younger twin sisters of Alex and Aaron, have spent their entire lives wishing for an adventure. Their wish comes true when a dragon suddenly shows up, claiming that his family is being held captive by the evil ruler, Revinir. The twins decide to run away to the land of the dragons to rescue them.
Chris d'Lacey has written several dragon series. The Last Dragon Chronicles is a series of seven titles about David Rain, a college student who is a tenant of Liz Pennykettle, a potter who makes clay dragons, and her daughter Lucy. David soon discovers that the clay dragons come to life and have magical powers. Gadzooks, a dragon made by Liz as a housewarming gift, inspires him to write a story that reveals the truth behind an unsolved mystery.
The Erth Dragons trilogy by d'Lacey begins with The Wearle, a story about a colony of dragon explorers in search of an earlier colony that has disappeared, and Ren Whitehair, a boy living on earth. Ren disagrees with most humans who believe dragons are awful. He is determined to venture off into their territory.
The Dragon with a Chocolate Heart by Stephanie Burgis is the story of Aventurine, a brave dragoness who is determined to fly and explore the world outside of her family's mountain cave, even though they don't feel she is ready.
Cornelia Funke's Dragon Rider trilogy is about a dragon, a boy, and their extraordinary adventures together. The animated film, Dragon Rider, is based on the series.
The popular Wings of Fire series by Tui Sutherland follows the adventures of young dragons as they fulfill their prophecies and try to stop a war between their tribes over an ancient treasure, which has been going on for generations. The books are written from the perspective of the dragons, who have many human-like traits and display human emotions. The series currently consists of three arcs of five books each. Each book centers on its own protagonist. For graphic novel fans, there are currently eight titles in the series that are illustrated by Mike Holmes.
Another series that is sure to please kids who love graphic novels is Dragon Kingdom of Wrenly by Jordan Quinn and Ornella Greco. The twelfth book in the series, Restless Ruins, is due to be released in July, 2025.
There are two books in the City of Dragons graphic novel series by Jaimal Yogis and Vivian Truong, with the third expected to be released in August, 2025. In the first, The Awakening Storm, Grace moves to Hong Kong with her mom and stepdad. She is concerned about making friends at her new boarding school. When a mysterious old woman gives her a dragon egg as a gift, she discovers that the dragon stories she heard when she was young might actually be real, especially when the egg hatches into a dragon with magical powers.
Please visit the Wyckoff Rizzo Children's Library and browse our Dragon-Themed Book Display this month. Also, please inquire about our monthly book clubs for kids of all ages, and visit, call us at #201-891-4866, x.3, or email denise.marchetti@wyckoff.bccls.org for more great suggestions.
The Spagnuolo family takes the Coolidge Elementary School motto to heart, "Once a Coolidge Cougar always a Cougar."
Henri represents the third generation of Spagnuolos to attend the school, following after his father, Sam, and grandfather, Albert "Bert." Henri is currently in first grade at the family Alma Mater, loving his time in Mrs. Auxter's class. His favorite classes are Art and Phys. Ed. and he loves to read. Last month he participated in the Book Club at the Library with Mrs. G and loved it! Henri wants to be an engineer like his "Poppy" Bert when he grows up.
The family's roots run deep in Wyckoff. Bert retells his story of growing up, "My family first lived in Paterson before moving to Wyckoff," he explained. "Eventually, my family moved to a house on Flaker Drive in 1956 when I was two-years-old."
Since that day, Bert has called Wyckoff his home, and he and his wife Sammy have raised their sons Samuel and Matthew in that very house. Over the years, Bert has rebuilt the house himself, finding pride in reinventing his childhood home.

Bert happily reminisced about his youthful days in Wyckoff, particularly his time at Calvin Coolidge Elementary. He recalls his kindergarten classroom with the fireplace, that very well may still be intact, but some practices at the school surely have changed. For instance, Bert chuckled, "There was no school nurse on the premises, so ill children were seen elsewhere. If you were sick, you sat on a bench outside the principal's office. The secretary would call Dr. Ballas's office, located across the street from the school on Grandview Avenue. The nurse would let the secretary know if it was okay for the child to see the doctor. I remember being told to go across the street to the doctor's office. The secretary and the nurse would stay on the phone together until I arrived there."
Coolidge and the surrounding woods were Bert's extended backyard. The area behind Coolidge was heavily wooded until Bert's father had an idea. He and a neighbor decided that a path would help the kids on their commute and together they forged a path that still exists today. Unbeknownst to many of its current travelers, Bert still maintains that path, breaking branches and forging routes to help its current Cougars every fall. "Today, we walk that path with Henri and tell our grandchildren stories about the way things used to be. In fact, we've even created a route from the Water Company field down to Kimber's Tots where Lennon goes (and Henri once did) to create a path system to all of our schools."
Bert remembers that during his childhood, Wyckoff was still rural and had numerous farms. "There was a dairy farm where Wyckoff Avenue, Hillcrest Avenue and Newton Road meet," he recalls. "There was a little store and a cigar box where you left money if you purchased ice cream or some other item. If you didn't have money you marked your name and purchase in a ledger and the farmer would settle the bill with your father."
The Barrister Court housing development on Grandview Ave. was a private parcel of land owned by the Hoffman family. Mr. Hoffman owned the lumber company where Kuiken Brothers is today. Mrs. Hoffman loved horses. In addition to their home, the property included stables, pastures and a large barn with indoor riding facility. Every Fall the Hoffmans would host a large barbecue and part of the festivities included a trail ride. Bert recalls, "A single file line of riders would walk their horses down Grandview Ave, through Coolidge School property and into the Water Company field next to our house. Once there they would gallop around the perimeter to exercise the horses. You could feel the ground shake as they thundered past you."
Tom Norman's Sporting Goods was the place in town where you could buy fishing gear, worms, firearms and ammunition. The owner was a good gunsmith and also the town Chief of Police. It was not uncommon for him to answer the phone while talking to you, then excuse himself to go back to Town Hall to attend to some urgent police duties.
In addition to Coolidge school, Bert graduated from Eisenhower Middle School, Ramapo High School and eventually received a degree in Engineering from Villanova University. Following graduation, Bert's first job was at Firestone tire factory in Salinas, California. During a trip back east to visit family, Bert stopped in at Hawthorne Chevrolet to visit his best friend, Glenn Walker. Glenn introduced Bert to Sammy, who also worked there. Bert simply refused to leave without asking her to go out with him. "She said no" he laughed, but he wasn't quitting that easily. Bert returned out west but a year later was back living on the East Coast and returned to ask Sammy again. This time she said yes.
"I took her to a venison dinner sponsored by the Rod & Gun Club," Bert recalls. Soon enough, they were inseparable. "We were engaged on Christmas Eve at Bert's house," said Sammy.
This year marks 45 years of marriage and 40 years in their beloved home.

In 2025, Bert retired from IBM after 42 years of dedicated work as an engineer. "I worked at the 450 acre microchip manufacturing facility in East Fishkill, New York," said Bert. "It was a 60 mile commute each way."
Retirement has allowed him more time to take on home projects and spend time with his grandchildren. "I like gardening and building things. Now that I'm retired I spend a lot of time on home improvement projects at our house as well as my son's homes whenever needed."
He also enjoys fresh and salt water fishing, something retirement has allowed him to do more frequently with his sons and grandkids. "Besides NJ, I've fished in the Pacific, Alaska, Florida and the Canadian Northwest Territories, 350 miles north of the arctic circle." Bert said. "We take Henri and Lennon to the Wyckoff Fishing Derby every year. Lennon has a blast and Henri has placed for his age group two years in a row!"
After the births of her sons, Sammy became very involved in their education. She loved volunteering at Coolidge School, serving on the PTO Executive Board, volunteering at the bike rally, pizza lunch, and field and theme days. She also ran the May Friendship Dinner for more than 10 years. As the boys grew older, Sammy returned to work and for the last 26 years she has been the Practice Manager at Family Eye Care in town. Bert asserts that Sammy has been the heart of the family since they've been together. "Sammy is the fun one," he admits. "She keeps our social calendar, remembers every birthday for family and friends, organizes the annual family summer vacation and hosts our holiday gatherings."
Sammy was raised in Hawthorne along with her two sisters, Carol and Diane. "My mother was from Le Faouet, France. She brought a lot of wonderful French traditions here that we continue to cherish." Sammy's sister Carol also lives in Wyckoff and their sons were raised very closely and the family continues with many traditions. Sammy's youngest son Matthew graduated from Salisbury University and continued to gain his Special Education and Administrative Leadership degree from Felician College. He is currently a teacher in Hawthorne where Sammy grew up and her sister Carol still teaches. "Matt started his teaching career at Roosevelt Elementary School, which is the school I attended. He has taught many elementary grades, including special education, and is currently a 5th grade teacher at Washington Elementary School in Hawthorne," Sammy explained. "He has also coached soccer and softball at my alma mater, Hawthorne High School." Sammy and Bert say they are blessed to have their family so close by. "Matt is in Hawthorne and Sam and his wife, Meghan are a seven minute walk from our house," Sammy beamed. "Bert and I love having everyone by and having our house filled with all the kids and grandkids."
Sammy and Bert's oldest son Sam followed in his father's footsteps and made it back to Wyckoff after attending the University of Massachusetts for undergrad and spending some time in Hoboken. It was here he met Meghan.
They met at Tenth and Willow in Hoboken, which is apparently common amongst the Wyckoff crowd. Meghan picked up bartending shifts there while she was in grad school and on an off-day she happened to be hanging out, Sam popped in with a friend. "Lots of guys who grew up in Wyckoff would hang out there. It was like the Wyckoff 'Cheers' bar," Meghan laughed. "I knew many of Sam's friends as regulars and one day we started chit chatting at the bar." Sam seemed smitten and a follow up date quickly ensued and they had their first date sipping coffee and talking on a nearby park bench. "Meghan was funny and casual," Sam smiles. "I was relaxed and felt like I could be myself around her." On a rainy day a few years later, Sam proposed to Meghan on that same park bench. They were married in 2017.
Today, Sam and Meghan have three children, Henri (6), Lennon (5) and Rosie (1). The children's names hold ties to family members. "When my Mimi was moving, we were sorting through some items and we came across an old newspaper with her brother's name, which was Henri, and we liked the name, but also loved the way it was spelled," Sam remembers. Their daughters are named after Meghan's maternal grandmother, Rose Lennon. "I was very close to my Nana growing up," Meghan recalls. "She lived close by and we were constantly at her house or she was watching us. Every Sunday the whole family gathered at her house for dinner. She was always there whenever we needed anything." Meghan can't help but connect this to the same way Bert and Sammy show up for their family now.

Ironically, Meghan grew up playing soccer and despite living in South Orange, traveled to Wyckoff to play for the Torpedoes when she was in middle school. After graduating from Columbia High School in South Orange (also a Cougar Mascot), Meghan went to James Madison University and then received her Masters in Teaching from New Jersey City University. She became a social studies teacher and coached soccer in Jersey City Public Schools until she returned to her hometown in South Orange and taught at her former middle school. After 12 years and building deep and meaningful connections with her students, she was inspired to make a career shift. After Lennon was born, Meghan attended Seton Hall University to earn a second Master's Degree in School Counseling. On the day of her graduation she got the joyous news she was pregnant with Rosie and has been home with her since. "Just recently," Meghan states, "I was accepted and enrolled in a program at TCNJ to receive a Clinical Mental Health Certification toward a counseling license so I can work in or outside of a school setting." Admittedly a "forever student", when she's not studying and taking care of the kids and home, she is Class Mom for Henri's first grade class, something she says she gets very excited about as a mom and former teacher.
Sam graduated from Ramapo High School in 2003 where he played baseball and ran track. After graduating from University of Massachusetts, he got his MBA from Felician College. He is currently the Vice-President of Sales and Marketing for Subaru Distributor Corporation.
"My territory is New Jersey and New York so I do a decent amount of traveling and we're grateful my parents can help out with the kids," said Sam.
After Hoboken, Sam and Meghan lived in Glen Ridge but bought a house in Hawthorne shortly after they were married. Right before Henri was to begin Kindergarten they found a house in Wyckoff, right in the Coolidge section near Sam's parents. "Coolidge has been a special place for my family for generations and a place of so many memories and friendships," Sam reminisced. "Henri is a student now and Lennon will start in September. I loved being able to show him around the school and share all that I remembered. It felt special." Sam said that he is still friends with his elementary school pals, most of which have moved back to Wyckoff or bordering towns. "It's nice to pass all of the memories and traditions along and raise our kids here now." In addition, they have forged many friendships with fellow Cougar parents and have fallen in love with their neighborhood.
One of the other bonds that has held Sam and his lifelong friends together for decades is their high arc softball league. "Our team is called the Doolies and we have played for more than 20 years every summer Sunday afternoon in Ramsey," Sam said. Most recently, his brother Matt and his buddies joined in this tradition. What's his secret to maintaining long-time friendships? "Most of us go back to kindergarten. We made great friendships early on and have always been there for each other and that's the same thing we want for our kids."
With Lennon entering Coolidge next year and Rosie a few years after, it looks like the Spagnuolo traditions and memories will continue to flourish out of Coolidge School and the Wyckoff neighborhoods to come. "Once a Cougar, always a Cougar."
I had the honor and privilege of working with a veteran of Vietnam for nearly fifteen years (maintaining a friendship that lasted almost eighteen), and his impact on my life cannot be overstated. He embodied all of the values of a great soldier; his dedication to his family was unmatched, he was an incredibly hard worker, and although he tackled every situation with confidence and a sense of humor, he always remained genuinely humble. He would help anyone who needed it without hesitation, establishing such a rapport with his patrons that they would speak only with him and opt to return at a later time if he was unavailable. Suffice it to say this man not only taught me how to become a valuable employee and team member, but more importantly how to be a good man, a provider, and a person that others could depend upon. I am truly grateful for all of our time together and all of the lessons he imparted to me.
Since Veterans Day can often slip by under the radar, I felt it was important to take a moment on our nation’s 250th birthday to acknowledge this holiday with some reading recommendations that elucidate just how incredible these heroic individuals truly are. As nonfiction reads can be quite heavy, fiction is a great place to start since many classic wartime novels are at least semi-autobiographical. These titles include All Quiet on the Western Front by Erich Maria Remarque, The Things They Carried and Going After Cacciato by Tim O’Brien, as well as many of Seal Team Six founder Richard Marcinko’s Rogue Warrior books (Marcinko also published an accompanying nonfiction book titled The Real Team recounting the real-life stories that inspired the series).
Stephen Crane’s The Red Badge of Courage and Ernest Hemingway’s For Whom the Bell Tolls are a few examples that delve into the hardships and trauma of the battlefield. Even fantasy novels like J.R.R. Tolkien’s The Lord of the Rings trilogy contain themes of camaraderie and the appreciation of beauty when juxtaposed with the horrors of war. Michael Shaara’s classic Civil War novel The Killer Angels as well as his son Jeff Shaara’s books all explore the importance and details of several key battles throughout history through the eyes of fictionalized characters.
If you would like to tackle some nonfiction reads, the aforementioned Tim O’Brien offers more in-depth insight into the Vietnam War with If I Die in a Combat Zone, while Marcus Luttrell, Robert O’Neill and Chris Kyle weigh in on their experiences in the United States Navy SEALS with their autobiographies Lone Survivor, The Operator and American Sniper, respectively. Both Luttrell’s and Kyle’s books have been adapted into films of the same names, while O’Neill’s story was the basis for the film Zero Dark Thirty. O’Neill was also involved in rescuing Captain Richard Phillips from Somali pirates in 2009 as depicted in the film Captain Phillips starring Tom Hanks in the titular role. William H. McRaven, a retired admiral in the United States Navy SEALS, wrote several positive motivational books including the immensely popular Make Your Bed: Little Things That Can Change Your Life… And Maybe the World.
As an American, I believe that Veterans Day is one of the most important holidays to observe; it celebrates a group of truly remarkable people who are responsible for creating this great nation and defending the freedoms that over 342 million citizens enjoy every single day. These individuals selflessly put their lives on the line for a cause larger than themselves, overriding their instincts of self preservation to protect their brothers and sisters in arms, tirelessly working to ensure the continuing security and stability of America and her interests. The recommendations I have provided only begin to scratch the surface, and there is so much more to be discovered; I implore you to take a few moments this Veterans Day to visit your local library and learn a little bit more about what it means to serve and what it takes to become a real American hero."
A Nor'Easter couldn't dampened the enthusiasm at the 8th Annual Wyckoff PBA Local 261 Cornhole Tournament held on September 26 at the Wyckoff Family YMCA.
Manoli the Greek Mouse is back in a new children's book, Manoli the Greek Mouse and the Wildfire.
Wyckoff native George Psomas was inspired to write the book after seeing the devastating effects of wildfires both in the United States and abroad.
"It is a story of compassion that once again illustrates the power of kindness," said George, a professional actor, singer and voiceover artist.
The book is available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble on November 10.
Ola!
My name is Mia and I am a 4 1/2 year old Portuguese Water Dog.
I am so thankful to be cared for by my human family, Mitchell, Maria, Ashlie and Jacob.
They speak to me in both English and Portuguese and I understand agua (water) and caminhar (walk).
When I go for a walk in the neighborhood, I keep an eye out for Abigail and Tory. I love to play with them.
What I don't love is water. I love the beach and enjoy rolling in the sand but even though I am a water dog i do not like the aqua!
Another favorite activity, is to go on local hikes. I especially enjoy the Franklin Lakes Preserve.
My favorite treats are home made sweet potato sticks - yum, yum.
I enjoy playing in my yard especially with my large ball. It’s my favorite toy!
This year I went on a roadtrip to Florida to spend time with my human grandparents. It was lots of fun! On our way there, I visited welcome centers in each state along the way. I really enjoyed exploring Savannah and Charleston.
Tchau!
The holiday season can be both a time of great joy and great stress. With so many things in life, planning is key. So while we still have some time to prepare, here are a few ways to reduce your mental load and (hopefully) be merry with efficiency in the coming weeks.
Holiday Greeting Cards
Buy them as early as possible and mail them before Thanksgiving. The holiday chaos train tends to leave the station the week of Thanksgiving and barrels through the New Year. So knock that big one off your list early. And if you realize half-way through December you completely forgot to buy or send any, going with “Happy New Year” cards buys you more time to send them out in a timely fashion.
For Holiday Dinners
Use Evites to keep track of who is coming and better yet — what they are bringing. The “What to Bring List” feature can save you from a barrage of “what should I bring?” messages from guests.
If you’re dreading anyone bringing down the vibe with topics like the news, mention in the invite description it will be a politics-free holiday and that you’d also like everyone to bring their 3 best jokes or trivia questions. This way you lay down the law ahead of time with a fun twist for conversation pieces.
Don’t forget to buy takeout containers if you like to send people home with food. On the big day, don’t be shy to ask for help and have tasks ready for your family and friends. Some examples:
For Gifts
Build your gift list on your phone. I like to use the Notes app on my iPhone. That way, the list is always with you when you’re shopping or when you think of something to add or edit.
Create the list of the people you need to buy for in mid-November so you’ll be ready to go when the holiday sales kick off. Use the list to track your spending and stay on budget. Keeping
track of each person you need to buy for also prevents overspending on any one individual by mistake.
For online purchases, update your list right after you click “order”. Don't wait until you receive the package. This helps you flag late & missing deliveries. As soon as gifts arrive, store them in a designated spot. A gift drawer/bin is handy for smaller items. I used a gift drawer all year round to hold birthday and hostess gifts. Stick post-it notes with the recipient's name on each item, especially if you have another person helping you wrap and label presents.
Speaking of gift wrap, remember gift bags require less effort and you can stock up on a variety of sizes at your local dollar store. Choosing colors like white, gold and silver can make the bags work for multiple occasions.
For Smooth Scheduling
Remember to add events to your calendar as soon as you learn of them to avoid double-booking or over extending yourself. If you stress over saying no to invitations, having a positive reply ready might help. “I’m so sorry we can’t make it, but let’s get together in the New Year to catch up. I’m setting a reminder to schedule something with you in January.”
Remember Your “Why”
Sometimes in the rush of getting through the holidays, we neglect to check in with ourselves and make sure we enjoy special moments throughout the season. Before you commit to something, ask yourself, “Will this feed my soul?” Traditions can become burdens when the spirit behind them fades and is replaced with a feeling of obligation. Are you doing things out of reflex? What will make the memories that truly matter to you?
WIth that, I wish you all a joyful holiday season!
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As the owner of Kitchen Wise Closet Wise of Bergen County and Basika Solutions, Michelle Zorbas helps home owners improve the flow of their daily lives. Michelle is a Certified Professional Organizer & Productivity Specialist. She holds certifications in ADHD, Hoarding Issues and Time Management. She’s spent nearly a decade as a volunteer EMT in NY & NJ and currently serves on the Board of Directors for the Better Business Bureau.
Ingredients 1 large egg 1 tablespoon water 1/2 (17.3-ounce) package frozen puff pastry sheets, thawed 1/2 cup (4 ounces) unsalted butter 2 cups thinly sliced leek 1 cup chopped carrots 1/2 cup all-purpose flour (about 2 1/8 ounces), plus more for work surface 2 1/2 cups chicken stock 4 cups shredded pre-cooked chicken thighs or rotisserie chicken 1 cup frozen petite sweet peas, thawed 1/4 cup heavy cream 1 tablespoon Dijon mustard 1 tablespoon chopped fresh parsley 2 teaspoons chopped fresh thyme, plus thyme leaves for garnish 1 1/2 teaspoons kosher salt 1/2 teaspoon black pepper
Directions Step 1 Gather the ingredients Step 2 Whisk together egg and 1 tablespoon water in a small bowl Step 3 Roll pastry sheet into a 12-inch square on a lightly floured surface. Cut into 16 (3-inch) squares. Set egg wash and pastry squares aside. Step 4 Preheat oven to 400°F with rack in lower third of oven. Melt butter in a deep 10-inch ovenproof skillet over medium-high. Add leek and carrots; cook, stirring often, until softened, about 6 minutes. Sprinkle with flour; cook, stirring constantly, 1 minute. Step 5 Stir in stock; bring mixture to a simmer. Step 6 Simmer, stirring constantly, until mixture thickens, 1 to 2 minutes. Step 7 Stir in chicken, peas, cream, Dijon, parsley, thyme, salt, and pepper. Remove from heat. Step 8 Brush pastry squares with egg wash; arrange squares on top of hot chicken mixture in skillet, slightly overlapping so entire surface of chicken mixture is covered. Place skillet on a rimmed baking sheet. Step 9 Transfer baking sheet with skillet to preheated oven. Bake until top is browned and filling is bubbly, about 20 minutes. Remove from oven and let stand 10 minutes. Sprinkle with fresh thyme leaves and serve.
With Election Day on November 3, investors are once again asking a familiar question: What will the midterm elections mean for the stock market?
It is an understandable question. Elections can influence tax policy, regulation, government spending, trade policy and the broader economic environment. With all 435 seats in the House and 35 Senate seats being contested this year, the outcome could affect the legislative environment for the next two years.
But there is an important distinction between political uncertainty and investment uncertainty.
Markets have historically reacted to midterm elections, but the election itself is only one of many factors driving investment returns. Interest rates, inflation, economic growth, corporate earnings, valuations and geopolitical developments can ultimately have a much greater influence on portfolios.
That distinction matters because the most useful question for investors may not be, “Who will win?” It may be:
“Is my financial plan strong enough that I don't need to know?”
What History Tells Us About Midterm Elections and Markets
There is a recurring pattern around midterm elections: markets can become more volatile as Election Day approaches, as investors attempt to assess potential changes in government policy.
Historically, the months following midterm elections have often been stronger for stocks. BlackRock's analysis of midterm cycles since 1970 found that the S&P 500 produced an average return of approximately 14% during the six months following midterm elections.
That statistic is interesting, but it should not be interpreted as a forecast for 2027. History provides context, not certainty.
The market's response to an election depends heavily on what investors have already anticipated. If an outcome is widely expected, it may have relatively little impact when the votes are counted. Conversely, an unexpected result can cause markets to reprice quickly.
We would argue that trade policy, geopolitics and regulation may ultimately have more influence on markets than the election result alone.
In other words, the election is important, but it is not the entire investment story.
What May Matter More Than the Election
As we look beyond November, several factors deserve investors' attention.
Interest Rates
Interest rates remain one of the most important variables for both stocks and bonds.
In September, the Federal Reserve raised its target federal funds rate to 3.75%–4.00%, with inflation remaining an important concern. Federal Reserve officials have indicated that the future path of rates will depend heavily on incoming economic data.
For investors, the important question is not simply whether rates rise or fall. It is what happens to the relationship between inflation, economic growth and interest rates.
Higher rates can place pressure on valuations and borrowing costs, but they can also make high-quality fixed income more attractive than it has been in years.
Inflation
Inflation remains another critical variable.
Tariffs, energy prices, wage growth and consumer demand can all influence inflation. If inflation remains persistent, the Federal Reserve may have less flexibility to reduce interest rates.
That matters for retirement planning because prolonged inflation can affect not only investment returns, but also the amount a household needs to spend each year to maintain its lifestyle.
Corporate Earnings
Ultimately, stocks represent ownership in businesses.
Political headlines can move markets in the short term, but over longer periods, corporate earnings and cash flows are fundamental drivers of equity values.
That is particularly important after a strong market period. Investors should periodically ask whether their portfolio still reflects their original assumptions about valuations, growth and risk—or whether market appreciation has quietly changed the portfolio's risk profile.
Taxes and Government Policy
The election could also influence the future direction of tax policy and regulation.
Depending on the makeup of Congress, some proposals may become easier or more difficult to advance. At the same time, executive and regulatory actions can influence areas ranging from trade and energy to financial services and retirement policy.
For financial planning purposes, this creates an important distinction:
You don't necessarily need to predict future tax law. You need to understand how your plan would respond if tax law changes.
So, Should You Change Your Portfolio Because of the Midterms?
For most long-term investors, an election by itself is unlikely to justify a dramatic change in investment strategy.
That does not mean investors should ignore the election. It means they should put it in the proper context.
Moving a substantial portion of a portfolio to cash because of political uncertainty can create a second problem: what happens when you decide it is safe to get back in?
Historically, investors who have moved in and out of markets based on which political party is in power have often sacrificed long-term returns. We believe a better approach is generally to build a portfolio that anticipates uncertainty rather than attempting to eliminate it.
What the Midterms Should Mean for Your Financial Plan
While the election may not require a wholesale change to your investment strategy, it can be a useful reminder to revisit several areas of your financial plan.
1. Review Your Asset Allocation
Strong market performance can cause a portfolio to drift away from its intended allocation.
If equities have appreciated significantly, an investor who originally intended to maintain a 60/40 portfolio may now have considerably more equity exposure than planned.
Rebalancing is not a prediction about the election or the market. It is simply a way of returning the portfolio to the level of risk originally deemed appropriate.
2. Revisit Your Cash Needs
Investors approaching retirement should pay particular attention to liquidity.
If you expect to need significant amounts of money from your portfolio over the next several years, having an appropriate reserve of cash and high-quality fixed income can reduce the likelihood that you will need to sell equities during an unfavorable market environment.
3. Reevaluate Tax Opportunities
Market volatility and changes in tax policy can create planning opportunities.
Depending on an individual's circumstances, year-end may be an appropriate time to evaluate capital gains and losses, charitable giving, Roth conversions, retirement contributions and other tax-planning strategies.
The right decision will vary by household, which is why tax planning should be integrated with the broader financial plan rather than handled as an isolated year-end exercise.
4. Stress-Test Your Retirement Plan
Perhaps the most important question is not what the market will do next year, but whether your plan can withstand a range of outcomes.
What happens if the portfolio falls 15% shortly after retirement?
What if inflation remains elevated?
What if interest rates stay higher for longer?
What if tax rates change?
What if one spouse dies earlier than expected?
A strong financial plan should address these possibilities before they happen.
Don't Let an Election Become an Investment Strategy
Every election creates compelling headlines. Markets will react to polling changes, campaign announcements and policy proposals. Investors will hear arguments that one outcome will be good for stocks and another will be bad.
But the relationship between politics and markets is rarely that simple.
Economic growth, inflation, interest rates, earnings, valuations and investor expectations all interact in ways that are difficult to predict. Even professional investors can disagree about which factors will ultimately dominate.
That is why the goal of financial planning should not be to correctly predict every election, interest-rate move or market correction.
The goal is to build a financial life that can withstand uncertainty.
During these Midterm elections, investors may understandably spend time thinking about what the election could mean for the economy and markets.
A more productive exercise may be to spend some of that time thinking about what the election should mean for their own financial plan.
Is the portfolio appropriately diversified?
Is the risk level still appropriate?
Are cash reserves sufficient?
Are there tax opportunities worth considering before year-end?
Is the retirement income plan resilient?
Does the estate plan still reflect current circumstances?
Those questions don't depend on who wins or loses an election.
And that may be the most important lesson of all: you don't need to predict the next political environment to build a financial plan designed to navigate it.
Taylor Thomas, CFP®, AEP®
Director of Financial Planning & Wealth Advisor
NCM Capital Management LLC
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Disclosures: This is not an offer or solicitation for the purchase or sale of any security or asset. While the information presented herein is believed to be reliable, no representation or warranty is made concerning its accuracy. The views expressed are those of NCM Capital Management, LLC and are subject to change at any time based on market and other conditions and NCM does not undertake to update or supplement its newsletter or any of the information contained therein. Past performance may not be indicative of future results. Different types of investments involve varying degrees of risk, and there can be no assurance that any specific investment will be profitable. There is no guarantee that the investment strategies discussed above will work under all market conditions or are suitable for all investors and each investor should evaluate their ability to invest long-term, especially during periods of downturn in the market. Investors should consult their investment professional prior to making an investment decision. Investment advisory services are offered through NCM Capital Management, LLC, an SEC-registered wealth advisory firm domiciled in New Jersey. This communication is not to be construed or interpreted as a solicitation or offer to sell investment advisory services. For additional information about NCM Capital Management, LLC, you may request a copy of our disclosure statement as set forth on Form ADV. Readers are encouraged to consult with their own professional advisers, including investment advisers and tax/legal advisors. NCM Capital Management, LLC does not provide legal or tax advice. NCM Capital Management, LLC can assist in determining a suitable investing approach for individuals, which may or may not resemble the strategies outlined herein.
Summer is hard on skin, even when you're careful. Long days outside, sweat, chlorine, and sunscreen that didn't get reapplied quite as often as it should have all add up. By September, most of us are looking in the mirror and seeing what's left behind: uneven tone, new dark spots, rough texture, and a dullness that no amount of moisturizer seems to fix.
That's exactly why fall is peel season.
i. Why the timing matters
A professional peel uses carefully chosen acids to loosen the buildup of dead skin cells so they shed evenly. That reveals fresher, brighter skin underneath and encourages healthy cell turnover. For a little while afterward, that new skin is more sensitive to the sun.
In summer, stronger UV and long days make that recovery window riskier, with more chance of irritation or new pigmentation (the very thing you were trying to fade). As the days shorten and the sun sits lower, conditions line up for treatment and healing.
One note: UV rays don't take the fall off. Daily SPF is still part of the plan, even on cloudy days.
ii. What a fall peel can help with
iii. Not every peel is the same
Peels range from gentle surface exfoliation to deeper resurfacing, and the right one depends entirely on your skin. At The Skin Tune, every peel starts with a real look at what's going on: your skin type, sensitivity, history, and the products you're already using. From there, the acid, strength, and number of sessions are chosen for you. No guesswork.
For most clients, a series of peels spaced a few weeks apart delivers smoother, more even results than one aggressive treatment. The studio works exclusively with GlyMed Plus pharmaceutical-grade formulas, so every step is professional-grade and always personal.
iv. Making your results last
Real results follow an 80/20 rule: about 80% comes from what you do at home, and 20% comes from treatments in the studio. After a peel, your skin needs support:
v. When to wait
A peel may not be right for you if you have a recent sunburn or fresh tan, an active cold sore, broken or irritated skin, or have recently taken isotretinoin (Accutane). Some peels also aren't recommended during pregnancy or breastfeeding. That's why a consultation always comes first, so be open about your health and your current routine.
vi. Get ahead of the season
Starting a peel series now means your skin is smooth and glowing by the time the holidays arrive. It also builds a healthier foundation before winter's cold air and dry indoor heat set in. Think of it as a fresh start: come as you are and leave glowing.
Ready for your fall reset? Book a peel consultation at The Skin Tune in Ramsey, NJ, and get a plan built around your skin.
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For some students, moving forward does not necessarily mean moving farther away. Sometimes it means recognizing that the right opportunities—and the right college experience—may be closer than they imagined.
Emily Morra ’26 and Rebecca Calderon ‘29 arrived at that realization by different paths.
Emily grew up in Mahwah, just minutes from Ramapo College of New Jersey. Like many Bergen County students, she knew the College was there. But when it came time to choose a college, she decided to go elsewhere.
Going away can be an important part of growing up. It gives students an opportunity to experience a new place, meet new people and discover who they are beyond the communities where they were raised. For Emily, however, that experience also helped her recognize something important: It was OK to change direction.
After one semester, she realized that her first college was not the right fit. She returned home, began taking classes at Ramapo as a visiting student and transferred in Fall 2023.
Rebecca initially resisted the idea of attending Ramapo for a different reason. The Wyckoff resident worried that a college so close to home would not feel like going away.
It is a familiar perception in Bergen County, where students often hear that having a “real” college experience means leaving the area. A nearby college can seem less transformative simply because its name, campus and surroundings are familiar—even when living there offers the same independence, relationships and opportunities students seek farther from home.
“We always wanted her to live on campus, but we wanted to be able to support or guide or help in any way we can,” said Deb Calderon, Rebecca’s mother. “So we were happy when she ended up being close.”
Rebecca ultimately chose Ramapo for the teacher education program to major in elementary education and earn a certificate in early childhood education. Now a sophomore living on campus, she participates in almost every campus activity offered throughout the week and weekends, has built close friendships, and maintains a life that is distinctly her own.
Deb sees an important distinction between living close to home and living at home.
“I still felt the separation and the difference because she lives on campus,” she said. “She’s not home.”
Rebecca manages her own schedule, attends activities with friends and handles more responsibilities for herself. At the same time, she can occasionally have dinner at home, attend an event in her community or continue babysitting for a family with whom she has a longstanding relationship.
Rather than limiting her college experience, proximity has allowed her to grow without giving up connections that remain meaningful to her.
Different Distances, the Same Growth
Deb has a useful point of comparison: Her son attends Penn State, several hours from Bergen County.
With both children now living on college campuses, she has discovered that geography does not determine how much support a student needs—or how independent that student becomes. Both children call and FaceTime. Both ask their parents questions. Both are learning to manage their responsibilities, relationships and time.
“It doesn’t matter that it’s Ramapo, 17 minutes from my door, or Penn State, three hours and 30 minutes away,” she said. “They’re looking for the same support.”
That realization challenges a familiar assumption: that distance itself produces independence.
“Living on campus, close to home or farther away from home, it’s still away from home,” she said. “You’re learning independence and handling friends, teachers, schedules and time management.”
A student several hours away might not come home frequently. Rebecca, despite living approximately 20 minutes away, generally remains on campus because that is where her classes, friends and activities are.
“She’s getting the college experience that she wants,” her mother said. “I don’t feel like she’s missing out on anything.”
An Education With Reach
For Emily, transferring closer to home opened doors to opportunities she had not anticipated.
She paired a data science major with a minor in sports management and completed an internship with the New Jersey Jackals, where she used TrackMan Baseball technology to collect and analyze data.
She also joined a student team working with the Center for Food Action through Ramapo’s Center for Data, Mathematical, and Computational Sciences. The students developed technology to help the nonprofit analyze operations and manage inventory across its food pantries– a game changer for intaking goods and recognizing trends in which food items are in greatest demand to those the organization serves.
The project, supported by the Daffron Family Foundation, brought together academic learning, technical expertise and community engagement. The Center for Food Action later honored Emily and her teammates for their contributions.
Emily graduated in May 2026 and is now completing Ramapo’s 4+1 Master of Science in Data Science program.
Her achievements are part of a broader record of student distinction that can be easy to overlook when a college is so familiar. Ramapo students have earned some of the nation’s most competitive academic honors, including Fulbright awards, and the College has celebrated its first Truman and Goldwater Scholars—recognitions spanning international study, public service leadership and scientific research. These accomplishments reflect the intellectual ambition, close faculty mentorship and access to opportunity that families may associate with colleges much farther from home.
Emily’s journey illustrates what can happen when interdisciplinary learning, faculty mentorship and practical experience converge. It also offers reassurance to students who discover that their original college choice is not working: Changing course is not failure. It can be an informed decision about what one needs to thrive.
The right college experience is personal. For one student, it may mean traveling hundreds of miles. For another, it may mean living on a nearby campus and building an independent life. For someone else, it may mean returning to a place once overlooked and seeing it with new eyes.
What matters most is finding an environment where a student can grow, form meaningful relationships and connect what they are learning with what they hope to contribute.
Emily and Rebecca took different paths to that environment. Their stories arrive at the same conclusion: Sometimes, you don’t have to go far to go far.
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The motto like father, like son can apply to Danny and Daniel in both work and leisure.
Danny is the owner of the Wyckoff-based Vent Viper, an air duct and dryer vent cleaning specialist company. His son, Daniel, joined the business in 2024.
“We have a good relationship and he has an unbelievable work ethic,” said Danny. “He puts up with me and I can be tough to deal with because I am very demanding.”
A Wyckoff resident for 23 years, Danny started the business in 2012 on the suggestion of his friend, Chris Bache, who owned a similar business.
He says he came up with the business name in about five minutes.
“I had some marketing and advertising experience because I once owned a business in the printing industry,” said Danny. “I thought it was a smooth and easy name to remember.”
Daniel was a teenager when he found Vent Viper their first client.
“The first client was a condominium association,” recalls Danny.
Today, Vent Viper responds to client calls for air duct cleaning, dryer vent cleaning, gutter cleaning, pressure washing, and pest control in Bergen and Passaic counties.
Danny’s meticulous attention to detail and mastering of multiple hands-on skills have always been the cornerstone of his career.
He worked for 16 years as a stagehand at many of the area's iconic buildings and on several television programs, including Madison Square Garden, Lincoln Center, "The Today Show" and "Good Morning America".
Danny explains that a stagehand is a technician who has to perform a multitude of tasks including carpentry, electrical systems, heavy rigging, audio systems, lighting, and props.
He has attended hundreds of concerts during his career and names the Tina Turner concert at Madison Square Garden as the most memorable.
“Tina lit up the whole place with her energy,” said Danny. “She was in her sixties and had younger back-up dancers but all eyes were on her. She had a very commanding stage presence.”
Danny said he enjoyed working at NBC.
“I am a people person. When I had everything set up for The Today Show I had the opportunity to talk to people on the set as well as those outside the window,” said Danny.
He can vividly recall his most grueling work day, or should we say days.
“It was a 36 hour shift,” said Danny. “I was at Lincoln Center all day, then went to Central Park for a concert and had an 8:00 a.m. gig at Madison Square Garden the next day.”
But due to the ever changing conditions of the industry, Danny had to shift his focus.
“Unfortunately, when those productions moved to Connecticut I decided to learn about vent cleaning and opened Vent Viper,” said Danny.
His son, Daniel, was raised in Glen Rock and is a graduate of Glen Rock High School, where he excelled in both track and field and bowling.
In 2014, he broke all personal records during the State Semi Finals.
He placed first for the 110m high hurdles and 400m intermediate hurdles, earning him the title of best dual hurdler in Northern New Jersey. He also placed second for the boys 4×4 relay team.
“It was a great experience competing at that level and I learned a lot about myself”, said Daniel.
When it comes to bowling, Daniel’s junior year scores were impressive. He had a 180 average, a 670 high series, and 279 score for highest game.
Daniel and members of the 2013-2014 bowling team were inducted in October into the Glen Rock High School Athletic Hall of Fame.
After high school, Daniel graduated from Montclair State University in 2019 with a degree in business. During COVID, he changed roles and started working in the HVAC industry before joining his father’s business.
“Having the privilege to work alongside your dad and build a business from the ground up is a feeling like no other.” says Daniel.
Like father, like son, Danny was also raised in Glen Rock along with his three sisters in an Italian-Irish household.
“I liked being in the kitchen with my mother and grandmother and learned to cook,” said Danny.
Daniel inherited his dad’s interest in food and shares cooking responsibilities at their home.
“Daniel uses more spices and different ingredients than I use,” said Danny. “I am a pretty simple and traditional cook.”
Some of their ingredients come from their backyard garden.
“We have tomatoes, cucumbers, eggplant, lettuces, arugula , carrots, and lots of herbs,” said Danny.
Accompanying Danny and Daniel, are their two German Shepherds, 10-year-old Schultz and 7-year-old Tessie, who help keep an eye on the property.
“We live in a great neighborhood with lots of dogs and the dogs are so friendly with one another,” said Danny.
Like father, like son, Danny and Daniel are avid fishermen.
Their favorite spot for freshwater fishing is 1000 Islands, which straddles the New York and Canadian border. The St. Lawrence River holds some of the largest smallmouth bass in the entire world.
“My personal best is six pound ten ounces”, explains Danny. “I participate in all different levels of bass fishing competitions, but the ones I enjoy the most are the buddy tournaments I fish with my son. We recently competed in a bass tournament on Lake Hopatcong and took first place.”
Danny caught his largest fish not in the waters to the north but in New Jersey.
“I caught an eight pound largemouth bass in Franklin Lakes. said Dan.
Whether they are working, fishing, or cooking it’s truly about being together.
“Working hand in hand, we’ve learned that it isn’t just about business at the end of the day,” said Danny. “It’s about creating a community and building rapport with people. Our business and life is a true definition of “work hard, play hard”. Family means everything, and that means building something that will be here for years to come.”
Wyckoff Centennial celebration continues on October 3 at the Zabriskie House at 421 Franklin Ave from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m.
The day will include a blacksmith demonstration. Antique fire trucks and a classic car with be on display.. Visitors can learn about the history of Franklin Township, the Zabriskie family including their genealogy, the Zabriskie House and the Wyckoff Fire Department.
Grace Zabriskie gifted the house, contents, and property to the Township of Wyckoff upon her death in 1973.
Grace was raised in the home by her grandparents Uriah and Keziah Quackenbush ,who purchased the property in 1867. Grace inherited the home.
The original part of the home was built circa 1730 by William Van Voohees. It is believed it was used as a village store and tavern at the time of the Revolutionary War. An addition was added in 1824.
The event is hosted by Zabriskie Board of Trustees and the Wyckoff Historical Society Trustees.
To learn more about the Zabriskie House visit www.zabriskiehouse.org. Information on the Wyckoff Historical Society can be found at www.wyckoffhistory.org
Note: You can substitute the following for the pumpkin-pie spice:
1 ½ tsp. cinnamon
¾ tsp. ginger
½ tsp. each nutmeg, allspice & cloves
Black Friday may get all the attention, but in the plumbing world, the day after Thanksgiving has earned a less glamorous nickname: “Brown Friday.”
With a house full of family and friends, Thanksgiving can put your plumbing system to the test. More people means more toilet flushes, more dishes in the sink, more food going through the garbage disposal, and a lot more demand on drains that may already be struggling.
The good news? Most Thanksgiving plumbing problems don’t come completely out of nowhere. Your home may already be giving you warning signs.
Pay attention to slow drains.
If your kitchen sink, shower, or bathroom sink is draining slower than usual, don’t wait for it to become a complete blockage. Extra holiday use can quickly turn a minor inconvenience into a major backup.
Give your toilets a checkup.
That guest bathroom that rarely gets used is about to get a workout. If the toilet has been slow to flush, clogs frequently, runs constantly, or makes unusual gurgling sounds, now is the time to have it checked.
Be kind to your garbage disposal.
Thanksgiving meal prep can be tough on kitchen plumbing. Avoid putting grease, fats, bones, large amounts of potato peels, and fibrous foods down the disposal. Even with a garbage disposal, your kitchen sink isn’t a trash can.
Know when it could be something bigger.
One slow drain may be an isolated clog, but multiple slow drains, gurgling toilets, foul drain odors, or water backing up into another fixture could signal a problem farther down the drain or sewer line.
Don’t Wait Until the Guests Arrive
October is a great time to address those little plumbing issues you’ve been putting off. Clearing a troublesome drain or repairing a problem toilet now is much easier than dealing with a plumbing emergency when Thanksgiving dinner is on the table and the house is full of guests.
A little preparation can help make sure the only thing overflowing this Thanksgiving is your plate.
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You may want to call Grant Herrman a "Renaissance Man" when it comes to outdoor activities.
The 15-year-old, Indian Hills High School sophomore plays soccer and golf, enjoys mountain biking and fishing and also skis.
“I love the physical activity and fun of soccer and skiing as well as the peacefulness of fishing and relaxation of golf,” said Grant.
Like most children, Grant started playing Wyckoff Recreation soccer in elementary school. In fourth grade, he joined the Torpedoes soccer club.
He says his most memorable game occurred when he was in fifth grade.
“The score was tied 4 to 4 and the goalie slipped in the last few minutes of the game,” explains Grant. “I got the ball and scored. We won the championship.”
Today, Grant plays on the varsity boys soccer team at Indian Hills High School in both the striker and right wing position.
“I am hoping to gets some great passes, score some goals and have fun this season,” said Grant.
Grant said he enjoyed watching this summer’s World Cup matches and is inspired by the play of Erling Haaland.
He is also a fan of the Premier League team Manchester City “Man City.”
Grant is member of the Indian Hills High School golf team and especially enjoys playing golf with his dad, Brett.
The father and son play at Crystal Springs, Wild Turkey, Ballamor and Vernon Valley golf courses.
“My best score was when I played with my dad at Vernon Valley and had a score of 87,” said Grant. “It find golf a relaxing activity after a long day and I especially like playing nine holes at sunset.”
Another relaxing activity for Grant is fishing.
Locally, he enjoys catch-and-release fishing for bass, sunnies and catfish at Zabriskie Pond in Wyckoff and Shadow Lake in Franklin Lakes.
For salt water fishing, Grant joins his dad on their boat hoping to lure blue fish, stripped bass and flukes in Raritan Bay and Sandy Hook.
“My biggest catch was a this Spring when I caught a 37-inch stripped bass weighing about 35-40 pounds,” said Grant.
Back on land, you will find Grant mountain biking at Mountain Creek as well as around Wyckoff.
“I am looking forward to skiing at Mountain Creek and Camgaw this winter,” said Grant.
You can say that history is part of the plot in the life story of Carol and Frank Floriani.
They met in a history class, they have lived for 42 years in her childhood hometown and they love tribute bands.
In the early 1970s, Frank and Carol were both students at the University of Dayton (Ohio).
A senior and honor student, Frank was approached by a history professor and asked to take the place of a graduate student who was no longer available to assist in the classroom.
“He told me I was going to take attendance and grade papers,” said Frank.
Carol, a freshman, immediately noticed the “cute” teaching assistant.
“I would ask lots of questions in class and visit him in his tiny, closet-like office,” said Carol.
Frank says he was initially confused why Carol, who he remembers as “submitting the best essays in class,” was frequenting office hours.
Their first date was to the movies, to watch the popular film at the time, A Clockwork Orange.
“We have been together since that first date” says Carol. “We will celebrate 50-years of marriage next year."
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After graduating with a degree in history, Frank began law school at the Maurice A. Deane School of Law at Hofstra University.
Frank has been a partner at Sullivan Papain Block McManus Coffinas & Cannavo PC for 40-years, where he represents plaintiffs in civil litigation.
“I have been at the same law firm for 47-years and still go into the office in Manhattan three days a week,” said Frank.
Carol decided to transfer to Rider University after her freshman year and then spent a year studying in Spain at the Universidad Complutense de Madrid.
After graduation, Carol began her career in publishing working in both the editorial and publicity departments at some of top publisher ing house Simon & Schuster.
One author who made an impression early-on in her career was beloved children’s author Judy Blume who had just penned her first adult novel.
“We were together on a media tour for Wifey and spending lots of time in hotels across the country. The book was controversial at the time,” said Carol. “Judy was in her 40s and I was in my 20s and I was influenced by her to write.”
Carol’s career included becoming Director of Publicity of Silhouette Books, a major romance novel imprint.
In the early 1980s, Ricardo Montalban, the actor known for his starring role in the popular television program, Fantasy island, became their spokesperson.
“He was a gentleman and very nice to work with,” said Carol.
The 1980s was also the time Carol began her writing career, authoring two teen novels, A Summer to Remember and Dancing in the Dark.
It was also during this time period that the couple began house hunting on Long Island and in New Jersey.
“Frank was raised in Massapequa and my family moved to Wyckoff when I was 12-years old,” said Carol.
Wyckoff was the victor in their search and they purchased their first house on Martom Road, later moving to their current residence on Canterbury Lane.
Carol says she has fond memories of growing up in Wyckoff including meeting her long-time friend Elinor “Ellie” Rafferty in eighth grade at Eisenhower Middle School.
“I went to Immaculate Heart Academy and Ellie went to Ramapo but we stayed friends,” said Carol. “We were in each other’s weddings and we talk every day. I call her my long-time friend."
Carol acknowledges that today’s Wyckoff has more homes and traffic and fewer sheep and horses but she still maintains that it has a country feeling.
“We have Abma’s farm and the Russell Farms and Community Parks,” said Carol. “I still love living here.”
You might recognize Wyckoff in Carol’s first new work of fiction in 35 years, Invitation to Murder.
The book introduces readers to the main character Lacey Langdon who inherits a printing and party-planning business and moves back to her hometown. She is asked by her aunt, who recently donated ten acres to the development of a community park, to organize an event in celebration. The ceremony is interrupted by the discovery of a dead body.
“The house in the book is inspired by Wyckoff’s own ‘Meer House,’ located near the entrance to Community Park,” said Carol. “The owners of the Meer property gifted the land that is now Community Park.”
Carol held the launch party for the book at Wyckoff’s Dear Reader bookstore.
“We had a huge turnout and Frank passed around champagne to celebrate,” said Carol.”I am so thankful to Allie, the owner."
Among the guests, were members of the tribute band “Double Vision: The Foreigner Experience.”
“We will go away for the weekend to listen to them play,” said the couple. “Music keeps you young and tribute bands give you nostalgia.”
When not on the road following Double Vision or tribute band Don Jovi, the couple adore spending time with their daughter Marisa, her husband Mike and their daughter.
“They live in Long Beach, NY so either we are going there or they come to Wyckoff,” said Frank. “We have a yearly family vacation on Cape Cod and there’s always a trip to Abma’s farm.”
While Carol has begun the chapters of her next book, Frank is checking the schedule of his beloved University of Dayton “Dayton Flyers” sports team.
“I will go to Dayton to cheer them on and when they play locally there are a lot of Flyers fans in the seats,” said Frank. “We are also fans of the NY Yankees and the NY Giants.”
Spending 54 years together provides Carol and Frank with an abundance of love, laughter and memories and as they like to say “the rest is history.”
Installing a new fence, shed or privacy screen seems simple, but it often raises one of the most common—and preventable—property disputes: where exactly is the boundary line?
From a civil engineer’s perspective, understanding and verifying property boundaries is essential before any construction begins. A professional boundary survey helps ensure your fence, wall, or landscaping project is accurate, compliant, and conflict-free.
Below, we answer common questions homeowners ask about boundary surveys and fencing projects.
Q1: What is a boundary survey, and why is it important before making any changes to your property?
A: A boundary survey is a professional measurement of your property lines based on legal descriptions found in deeds, plats, or recorded maps. The surveyor locates and marks the corners and boundaries of your property using precise instruments and records research.
Before building on your property, a boundary survey ensures you’re constructing entirely within your property—not encroaching on a neighbor’s land or a public easement. From a civil engineering standpoint, this protects both property value and neighborhood relationships while ensuring compliance with local ordinances.
Q2: Can’t I just use the existing fence or property pins as a guide?
A: Not necessarily. Existing fences are often placed incorrectly due to informal installation or unclear property lines. Also, depending on the ordinance requirement in the town, fences may be required to be set in from the property line and not on the line. Specifically, in Wyckoff, the fence needs to be 6 inches inside the property line. Old property pins may be missing, moved, or buried, and relying on them without verification can lead to disputes later.
A certified survey replaces guesswork with accuracy. The surveyor confirms the true legal boundary based on recorded deeds and ensures all physical markers match the legal record.
Q3: What types of surveys are relevant for home development?
A: The two most common survey types are:
In some cases, a lot line adjustment or easement survey may also be needed if your property boundaries have changed over time or are affected by utility or access easements.
Q4: How do zoning and setback regulations affect my home development?
A: Local zoning ordinances often dictate height, materials and setback distances from property lines, sidewalks, or streets. Some areas restrict fencing, sheds or decks near intersections for visibility or along drainage easements for maintenance access. Also, specifically, in Wyckoff, depending on the size of the shed impacts the setback requirements.
A civil engineer can interpret these requirements, coordinate with local permitting offices, and help ensure your fence location complies with municipal codes and subdivision covenants.
Q5: How can a civil engineer help with drainage and grading?
A: Additions to your yard such as decks and patios can unintentionally block natural drainage or redirect runoff, causing water to pool or erode soil. Engineers consider the site’s grading, swales, and stormwater patterns when planning your property development.
Simple adjustments—like minor regrading, small culverts, or gaps can maintain proper flow and prevent long-term water problems between neighboring lots.
Q6: What if my neighbor disagrees about the boundary or my future development?
A: When disputes arise, a certified survey plat becomes the objective reference point. Civil engineers and surveyors rely on legal property records, monumentation, and coordinate data to clarify ownership limits.
It’s best to share the survey results with your neighbor before renovations. Transparent communication, backed by professional documentation, often resolves concerns before they escalate.
Q7: How much does a boundary survey typically cost, and how long does it take?
A: Costs vary depending on lot size, terrain, vegetation, and record complexity. In most residential areas, boundary surveys range from $850 to $2,000, with turnaround times from a few days to a couple of weeks.
More complex or rural properties may take longer if previous survey data are incomplete or conflicting.
Q8: When should I contact a civil engineer versus a land surveyor?
A: A licensed land surveyor performs the actual boundary determination and marking. A civil engineer becomes involved when the project includes site grading, drainage improvements, retaining walls, or permitting coordination.
In many projects, engineers and surveyors work together to provide a seamless process from boundary verification through design and construction.
At Omland & Osterkorn, Inc, I am licensed in both civil engineering and land surveying!
Final Thoughts
Property development projects enhance comfort and security, but they must start with accurate boundary information. A professional boundary survey, guided by civil engineering insight, ensures your project is compliant, durable, and neighbor-friendly.
Taking the time to confirm your property lines protects your investment and prevents the kinds of disputes that can last a long time.
Have a question about surveys? I’m happy to help guide you through the process. Reach out to:
Omland & Osterkorn Inc.
42 Central Ave
Midland Park
973-647-7820
www.ooengineers.com
A rite of passage for children during the warm weather months is to host a lemonade stand Wyckoff children expanded their wares to include jewelry, baked goods, toys and other items.
Photo: Lemonade Mortensen Caption: Lane Mortensen, Savannah Mortensen and William Cullinane
Photo: Lemonade Michael McManus and PJ Morisco Caption: Michael McManus and PJ Morisco
Photo: lemonade Kiera Perry Caption: Kiera Perry and Tess Aranda
Photo: Lemonade Ryan & Madison Decker 2026 Caption: Ryan and Madison Decker
Photo: Lemonade Fiona and Charlie Agharkar 2026 Caption: Fiona and Charlie Agharkar
Photo: Lemonade Isla Teichman, Penelope Teichman, Leila Ozden, Rosie Mungiello, Sophie Mungiello Caption: Isla Teichman, Penelope Teichman, Leila Ozden, Rosie Mungiello, Sophie Mungiello
Photo: Lemonade Anand brothers Caption: Ram and Kabir Bhatia
Greetings, my name is Kingsley and I am a 12-year-old Cocker Spaniel.
Before finding my forever home in Wyckoff, I lived in a car with Kevin, a Vietnam veteran. He named me King.
When he was treated at a VA Hospital, the kind doctor Ann would take care of me.
Lucky for me, Ann thought of Mary when I was in need of a permanent home.
Mary agreed to adopt me along with the rest of my human family, Frank, John and Luke.
They decided to keep a portion of my original name and added to it so it is more regal… Kingsley.
Since I am a king, Mary spoils me with fresh cooked eggs for breakfast.
Back in my youth, Mary and I would run miles in the sunshine. Today, I prefer laying on the floor with sun beams shining on me while I rest.
I visit a doggy chiropractor for an adjustment once a month. When the doctor starts the treatment, I immediately relax and lie down. The treatment has worked and I didn’t need surgery!
Every day I take a ride with Frank to the post office and sit in the back seat. When I ride with Mary,I sit on the console next to her.
Recently, I went with my whole family for a long car ride to Rhode Island, where my human brother John proposed to his girlfriend. The hotel room was a fun adventure.
I love the weekends when I go to our lake house. I get to roam free there which is so much fun!
Playing tug-of-war with a rubber toy is my favorite pastime. Naturally, I am stronger and I win.
I truly live like a king!
If your vehicle lease is coming to an end, there's a step many drivers skip that could put real money back in their pocket: finding out what your car is actually worth before you return it.
How lease equity happens
When you signed your lease, the leasing company set a "residual value" — an estimate of what the car would be worth at the end of your term. But actual market conditions rarely match that estimate exactly. Used car prices have shifted significantly over the past few years due to supply shortages, changing demand, and inflation, and in many cases vehicles are worth considerably more today than their original residual value predicted.
That gap — the difference between what your car is actually worth and what you'd owe to buy it out — is called lease equity. If your car's current market value is higher than your payoff amount, that difference is money that belongs to you, not the leasing company. But if you simply hand back the keys at lease-end without checking, that equity disappears — the leasing company keeps it.
Why this matters even if you don't want to keep the car
You don't have to want to purchase your leased vehicle to benefit from this. In many cases, a third party can buy the vehicle directly from the leasing company on your behalf, pay off your remaining balance, and pass any equity above that payoff amount to you — all without you ever taking ownership.
This can also help you sidestep some of the less pleasant surprises of lease returns, like:
Trading in or selling before your official turn-in date can sometimes avoid these charges entirely, depending on your leasing company's terms.
Which vehicles tend to have the most equity right now
Equity varies by make, model, mileage, and condition, but vehicles from brands known for strong resale value — think Toyota, Lexus, Honda, Acura, BMW, Land Rover, GMC, and Chevrolet — have shown some of the largest gaps between payoff amounts and current market value in recent years. That said, it's worth checking regardless of make or model; the only way to know for sure is to get an actual appraisal against your specific payoff quote.
The bottom line
Before you return your lease, it's worth a few minutes to compare your buyout amount to your car's real market value. It costs nothing to check, and if there's equity sitting there, it's yours to claim — not the leasing company's.
Have questions about how this works for your specific lease? DNA Auto Wholesale offers no-obligation appraisals for local drivers and can walk you through your options, whether you're leasing a daily driver or a classic, vintage, or specialty vehicle.
DNA AUTO WHOLESALE LLC
70 Commercial Ave. Unit D. Moonachie NJ 07074
201-983-3452
We've all been there.
You're standing in the wine aisle, staring at dozens of bottles, trying to remember whether white goes better with Brie or if red is the better choice for charcuterie.
Before long, you grab the same bottle you always buy and hope for the best.
The truth is, you're not alone.
One of the most common questions I hear from customers at Graze Craze of Wyckoff isn't, "Which cheese should I choose?" It's, "What wine goes with all of this?"
The good news? Pairing wine with charcuterie doesn't have to be intimidating. You don't need to know French wine regions or spend a fortune on an impressive bottle. To help make entertaining easier, Graze Craze recently introduced a Wine Pairing Guide designed to take the guesswork out of pairing wine with charcuterie. The philosophy is simple: there are no rigid rules—just helpful suggestions to help you discover combinations you'll enjoy.
Whether you're hosting football Sundays, Friendsgiving, Thanksgiving dinner, a holiday open house, or simply inviting neighbors over for a glass of wine, these five simple tips will help you entertain with confidence.
1. There Is No "Perfect" Pairing
The biggest misconception is thinking there's only one correct wine for every cheese. There isn't.
Think of pairing suggestions as starting points, not rules. Try different combinations, trust your palate, and don't be afraid to experiment. That's one of the things I love most about charcuterie—everyone discovers a different "perfect bite."
2. Match the Intensity
A simple guideline is to pair lighter wines with fresh, creamy cheeses and fuller-bodied reds with richer, aged cheeses. Our truffle goat cheese shines alongside a crisp Sauvignon Blanc, while our signature Caramella—a delicious cross between Parmesan and aged Gouda—is wonderful with a medium-bodied red. A classic aged cheddar can easily stand up to something bolder. Matching intensity makes choosing a wine much easier.
3. Let Acidity Do the Work
Bright, refreshing wines like Sauvignon Blanc, dry Rosé, Riesling, and sparkling wines help balance rich cheeses and cured meats.
Picture building the perfect bite: creamy Brie with our cranberry orange jam, a drizzle of honey over our pistachio-garnished goat cheese, or a slice of white wine salami paired with creamy Swiss or sharp aged cheddar. Even our house-made, all-natural hummus pairs beautifully with crisp vegetables and a chilled white wine. It's one of the easiest ways to elevate your board without changing a single ingredient.
4. Let the Board Be the Centerpiece
One of the reasons I love charcuterie is that it does double duty. It offers something for everyone while becoming a beautiful centerpiece for your table.
Vibrant seasonal fruit, artisan cheeses, cured meats, colorful vegetables, jams, and honey invite guests to gather, explore new flavors, and start conversations. Instead of juggling multiple appetizers, one thoughtfully crafted board creates both the meal and the atmosphere.
5. The Best Hosts Enjoy the Party Too
After years of helping families, businesses, brides, and neighbors celebrate life's biggest moments, I've learned something that has very little to do with wine.
One of the things I love most is watching the host relax. Once the charcuterie board is on the table, something changes. Guests naturally gather around it, conversations begin, people start building what we like to call their "perfect bite," and the stress of entertaining starts to disappear. The board becomes more than an appetizer—it becomes the heart of the gathering.
Whether you're stopping in for a handcrafted charcuterie board, planning a wedding, hosting a corporate event, or gathering family around your holiday table, our goal is always the same: to make entertaining feel effortless so you can spend less time worrying about the details and more time making memories.
Because when the food is taken care of, something wonderful happens.
You get to be present.
As the holiday season approaches, remember this:Entertaining doesn't have to be complicated to be memorable.
Sometimes all it takes is beautiful food, a bottle of wine you enjoy, and the people you love gathered around the table.
Whether you're hosting an intimate dinner for two, a football watch party, Friendsgiving, Thanksgiving, or a holiday open house, we're honored to help make entertaining feel effortless, beautiful, and memorable.
After all, the best pairing isn't just wine and cheese.
It's beautiful food, meaningful conversation, and the people you share it with.
And as your guests gather around the board, don't be surprised when someone asks the question we love hearing at Graze Craze…"What's your perfect bite?"
October is the perfect season for scenic drives through colorful autumn landscapes, cheering on your favorite sports teams, sipping hot chocolate, and, of course, curling up with a good book. While I personally prefer audiobooks, many of my friends enjoy reading e-books.
Whenever I browse Hoopla's extensive audiobook collection, I'm always excited to discover my next great listen. While exploring the thriller section, I came across several intriguing titles, but The Housemaid by Frieda McFadden immediately caught my attention.
After finishing The Housemaid, I was completely hooked on McFadden's writing. I eagerly listened to the rest of the Housemaid series and now can't wait to watch the film adaptation. From there, I worked my way through nearly her entire audiobook collection. My personal favorites are The Wife Upstairs, The Boyfriend, and Do Not Disturb.
Another standout discovery was Gone Before Goodbye on the Libby app, co-written by Harlan Coben and Reese Witherspoon. Performed as a full-cast audiobook featuring Reese Witherspoon as Megan, the main protagonist, and Chris Pine as Marc, Megan's husband, it delivered an incredible listening experience that kept me captivated from beginning to end.
Of course, October isn't just the season for heart-pounding thrillers—it's also the perfect time to immerse yourself in a bit of magic. While browsing the fantasy section, I discovered The Medici Manuscript by C.J. Archer, the first novel in the Glass Library series. Set in the 1800s, it blends rich historical detail with enchanting magic, memorable characters, and an irresistible sense of mystery.
Another favorite of mine is A Discovery of Witches by Deborah Harkness, the first book in the All Souls series, which I discovered on the Libby app. It was later adapted into a television series. Blending fantasy, romance, history, and plenty of magic, it features compelling adult characters, fascinating witches, and an enchanting story that quickly became one of my all-time favorite fantasy reads. If you enjoy magical worlds with a touch of romance and mystery, this series is well worth adding to your reading list.
Whether you're in the mood for heart-racing suspense or enchanting fantasy, your library's digital collection has something for everyone.
Getting started with digital media is simple and convenient. Just download either the Libby or Hoopla app, both of which are available for smartphones and tablets. Once you've installed the app, sign in using your library card information to begin exploring thousands of e-books, audiobooks, movies, music, and more.
If you need assistance downloading the apps or setting up your account, stop by the reference desk at the library. We're always happy to help.
While both apps offer an impressive selection of digital content, there is one key difference. Hoopla provides instant access to its collection, so there are no waiting lists. Libby, on the other hand, often offers the newest and most popular titles, which may have a waiting period. If a title isn't immediately available, simply place it on hold, and the app will notify you as soon as it's ready to borrow.
For patrons who use hearing aids or Bluetooth-enabled listening devices, both apps make it easy to stream audiobooks directly to your devices for a comfortable, high-quality listening experience.
So, whether you're craving edge-of-your-seat thrillers or a little literary magic, October is the perfect time to discover your next favorite book. Happy listening—and happy reading!
It was Viking fever this summer when fans, cheering on the Norway team in World Cup matches, performed the Viking Row and wore Viking horn helmets.
This fall, readers can cheer for the release of children’s author Robert Skead's book, the Wrath of the Sea Hag, a sequel to the Legend of the Narwhals.
"Fans of Erling Haaland, and the Norway men's National team, who both came to fame during this World Cup, may find the book of interest as it's like a Nordic folktale with a Viking prince as the main character,” said Skead.
Skead may have Viking roots on his own family tree.
"My sister was doing research on our family name and discovered that the name Skead was originally Skarde. Many Vikings who carried this name were recorded in legends for their feats of great courage and heroic acts,” said Skead. “One of these men could be related to me!”
Skead added the reference to a character called the The Mighty Skarde in Legend of the Narwhals.The Mighty Skarde is a main character in Wrath of the Sea Hag.
Wrath of the Sea Hag is available in paperback and ebook formats at major retailers, independent and online booksellers, and online through the publisher’s website www.apbooks.net.
When it comes to inviting someone into your home to make a major change, trust matters. For Vic and Chris of Magnolia Home Remodeling Group, that trust has been at the heart of their business for 30 years. We sat down with them to learn more about their story, their philosophy, and what they enjoy most about helping homeowners bring their ideas to life.
Tell us about your business and what you provide to the community.
We're Magnolia Home Remodeling Group, and we handle interior and exterior remodeling for homeowners throughout Northern and Central New Jersey. We're a family-owned and operated company, and over the years we've built a full team of project managers, coordinators, and support staff. We've worked hard to create a team that cares about doing the job right and keeping homeowners informed throughout the entire process.
How long have you been in this industry, and what brought you into this line of work?
Chris and I have been in the industry since 1996, so we're celebrating 30 years now. It's been our entire career, and honestly, watching a home transform from start to finish never really gets old. Every project is different, and that's one of the things that keeps it interesting.
What's the philosophy behind your business?
It really comes down to one simple idea: we treat every client's home the way we'd treat our own. Someone is trusting us to come into their home and make it better, and we don't take that responsibility lightly. We're grateful for every opportunity we get, and we understand how important it is to do the job right and live up to the expectations we set.
What inspires you most in your work, and what do you enjoy about it?
Every project keeps us on our toes because no two homes or homeowners are exactly alike. Each one brings its own challenges, and there's a lot of planning, communication, and coordination that happens behind the scenes. We enjoy that part of the process just as much as seeing the finished product. And, of course, there's nothing better than seeing a homeowner's reaction when everything starts coming together.
Do you have a message you'd like to share with the community?
Don't take any project—or any homeowner's trust—for granted. We're grateful every single time someone considers Magnolia for their home, and we never lose sight of that.
Share a fun or interesting story about your business. How do you keep the workday enjoyable?
Honestly, it's the people. Our team keeps things positive and upbeat, our contractors genuinely enjoy what they do, and there's nothing quite like seeing a homeowner's face light up as a project starts coming together. Those moments make the long days worth it.
Tell us about yourself and your family.
Vic is a Rutgers graduate and lives in Sussex County with his wife and their three children. Chris attended York College of Pennsylvania and also lives in Sussex County with his wife and three children. Between running the business and family life, we stay busy, but we love what we do. We've also been very intentional about how we've grown Magnolia over the years, making sure that growth never comes at the expense of the quality and personal attention we want our clients to receive.
We're also proud to have partnered with organizations such as George the Rescue and Make-A-Wish. Giving back to the community is something that matters a lot to both of us.
Anything else you'd like our readers to know?
We work hard to make sure our services can fit a range of budgets, and we partner with lenders that offer home improvement financing, giving qualified homeowners some flexibility when it comes to payment options. Estimates and consultations are always free, and if getting together in person is difficult, we're happy to offer a virtual visit.
Most importantly, we're always happy to talk with homeowners about their ideas and what they're hoping to accomplish. Give us a call anytime, and thank you for considering Magnolia!
Unlocking Healthy Aging with Resveratrol
By: Nida Arain – Holistic Nutritionist, Healthway Natural Foods in Tenafly
A Powerful Plant Compound
What if healthy aging wasn’t only about the genes we inherit, but also about how those genes are expressed? This is where resveratrol has captured the attention of longevity researchers.
Resveratrol is a naturally occurring polyphenol found in the skin of red and purple grapes, berries, peanuts, and other plants. Plants produce it as part of their natural defense system. In our bodies, resveratrol acts as a biologically active compound that may influence cellular signaling, inflammation, oxidative stress, and metabolism.
Your Genes Aren’t Your Destiny
One of the most fascinating areas of resveratrol research involves epigenetics which is the study of how lifestyle and environmental factors can influence which genes are turned “on” or “off” without changing the DNA sequence itself.
Resveratrol may influence enzymes called sirtuins, particularly SIRT1, that are involved in cellular stress responses, metabolism, DNA repair, and healthy aging. Research suggests that resveratrol can also influence epigenetic processes involving DNA and proteins called histones, helping regulate gene expression.
Think of your DNA as the instruction manual and epigenetics as the system deciding which instructions your cells should read. Resveratrol may help support some of these cellular “switches.”
Resveratrol & Longevity
Why is this important as we age? Aging is associated with increased oxidative stress, inflammation, changes in gene regulation, and declining cellular efficiency. Laboratory and animal research suggests resveratrol may support pathways associated with these processes and healthy longevity. However human studies remain mixed, and more research is needed.
Choosing & Taking Resveratrol
Resveratrol is commonly available as a capsule or tablet. Many supplements specifically identify trans-resveratrol , the form commonly used in research. Because products and doses vary considerably, follow the product label.
Resveratrol may interact with certain medications, please consult your doctor before starting a new supplement.
Think Beyond a Single Supplement
Resveratrol is best viewed as one piece of a larger healthy aging strategy. A nutrient rich diet, regular exercise, restorative sleep, stress management, healthy body weight, and meaningful social connections all contribute to longevity.
The goal isn’t simply to live longer, it’s to support more healthy, energetic years.
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